i'll leave this for you...
breh...this is my last reply to you...when you have to resort to trying to insult me instead debating my views...well...you already lost...i didnt insult you...i offered a different perspective and you acted liked a scorned child...
but thats par for the course around here...you cant contradict my points with logic...so you call me a fakkit
i proved you wrong... now im a bytch nikka
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give it up breh...youre not built for this...
why dont you neg me again...i promise it will make you feel better....
pretty soon you'll forget about the L you took....
Breh, I didn't read none of your post above because I am certain it's garbage. I will say this. You are simple minded. We are looking at the BIG picture. We understand individuals. We do, I studied human psyche, etc. Here's the thing.
Dawes is Black. Extremely well accomplished Black. She is fairly young. mid 30's is older in the child birth cycle but for a well accomplished individual, she is young.
Dawes is what you call a great chick. Highly educated, smart, beautiful, rare extremely high achiever. I am not saying I would husband her because I don't know how she is religiously but I would without a question date her but back to the subject to make you see where we are, and where you aren't.
Dawes lives in the best cities for Black women in the dating scene who are interested in Black men, Washington DC metro.
Dawes is a chick who nikkas had fantasy about as kids, a lot of nikkas, many were around her age then and younger. So like Tati Ali, she would be highly wanted by brothas but unlike Tati, she lives is high density quality Black area.
Dawes has a pick of the litter in DC without question with Black men like other women of her type. Clearly the highest levels has the most competition especially in a more materialistic area like the DMV.
Gets married at 33 years old to an avg cac with a decent salary who is a JV coach. If she respected her plight, where she came from, etc. She could have found a brotha with the same merit. But did she? No.
There is a reason why a majority of LSA gets mad when a brotha leaves the nest to go
especially a top tier brotha. We just don't have many and sistas are smarter than brothas. They understand, we don't because we shield ourselves from letting our emotions get the best of us but they general understand, not the c00ns of course but the real Black women. It's much deeper breh. That's why me and Malik are talking big picture and you asking us simple questions when the answer in this case is never simple.
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Ronnie Lott gave reasons how you know a women is cheating. To a simple minded nikka, that kinda talk is only reserved for the bosses, it just goes over your head. Why should I be so aware of shyt when all I want is some ass, dinner, not to feel lonely? Because, shyt ain't simple. God didn't make you to be an ant nikka. He made you to be a man. Be smart. Watch how real nikkas are talking in this thread. Big picture. Watch how you and Drew Wonder are talking. Like some hillbillies bamas. Peep game.
You can call me mad or emotional because that would be accurate. But I am aware of the situation which is why I am talking about it. Don't tell me, well you don't know her. I know people. That's much more important than knowing an individual because people lie if their real reasoning doesn't make sense at the end of the day.
Look, is she in love with this white guy, I don't know. What I do know is, if she gave a brotha like him a chance, she would find a willing partner 8 out of 10 times and a potential husband 2 out of the 8 times and that's real.