no notes...no lies...look her dead in her eyes and tell her EXACTLY what’s good...it’ll never happen again
OP...some ppl may not view it as a big deal but shyt like that rubs me absolutely the wrong way...I caught a neighbor putting something in my trash...turns out it was a used diaper...made him take it out IMMEDIATELY...I’m not paying my mortgage to walk to my garbage can and smell baby shyt...I didn’t wanna hear any of his excuses...bury that shyt in your backyard if you don’t have space in your own trash can...I’ve had serious feuds w/ neighbors in the past cuz if you give them an inch they’ll take a mile so I don’t take that shyt lightly...and in a case like that if she can’t respect my wishes I would get to a point where I’d dump that shyt on her lawn...but most ppl usually get the message right away
Situation here is different. Surf caught a man doing this and confronted him, OP basically knows that the woman next door did it and that she is creating a hygiene / maintenance problem in the neighborhood.
The fact that it's a woman is why he should go the other route. She's a pig, you don't know what she's capable of making up.
Last thing I need is a woman, especially a middle aged white woman accusing me of making threats. I'm going to write a note, and leave it in her mailbox. In fact, I'm going to put it on the windsheild of her car, because I don't want my shoes to get messed up walking on her porch from all those damn cats.
Like I said, I like cats, and I feel bad for the cats, but it used to be just ONE cat. Now, it's like 7 cats, of various ages, which means the neighborhood cats are fukking, and telling their babies to go eat at her porch. I already complained about the dog poop, and she just cleaned it recently so the local crackhead could mow her back yard. The next time it piles up, I'm calling the city. I can't even open the windows on that side of the house, because of the smell. I'm also going to take pictures.