Does your girl borrow money from you?

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If we're in a relationship where I can get money from her at any time, then yeah.
 

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I don't pay for shyt I'm a kept woman.

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Mine does. Should I expect it back? Does your girl ask you for money a lot. (We don't live together btw)

After reading about "husband privileges" (no cooking or cleaning for a boyfriend, only for a husband) , I don't think any man should give a girlfriend more than $500. Letting her borrow, meaning she will pay it back is different. If husband privileges exist and shouldn't be given to bf's, then wife privileges should exist as well. Giving your woman your money should be a wife privilege, not one for a girlfriend. Unless she is doing the same for you. Or cooking/cleaning.
 

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I still can't get over this though

I spend over a $100 a day. I got a $100 allowance when I was a kid :dead:

that's $3000 a month. Unless you're a millionaire, spending $3k on miscellaneous things monthly sounds a lil sus
 

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I think every Guys ideal is a woman who's not materialistic. a woman who's financially responsible and will act more like a partner than a dependent.

That being said when a man gets that he's more than willing to spend money on her and buy her things If it makes her happy knowing She's not looking at it like its her right.

many women go wrong feeling they are entitled to another persons things just because that person loved you enough to be in a relationship.

my friend is a doc and his girl is too and they're both making good money..sometimes we'll go out and she'll run over to the bar and get us ( myself and other friends we grew up with) a couple of rounds of drinks because this is her mans boys. Or if we step out she might text him hey if you need some cash let me know. but he's good.. she was just asking.

I contrast that with some women I meet who even before we go far are asking me in round about ways to help them with something.

I'm not a mean person but I just find it weird how you can try ask someone you just met for "help" on something.

Most people also figure out I have the cash and real talk many people left right and centre always asking me to loan them money knowing I have it and it won't be a financial impact on me. e.g between first and fifth December I'm loaning this guy money for his dads medical treatment.

Some other chick a few weeks ago also once lay naked in my bed and asked to borrow a small amount of money. She needed it but we had Barely met and I knew she was not gonna pay back cause she seemed to just enjoy free things cause she couldn't get it for herself. I gave it to her and have ignored her numerous messages and calls since. Shes not the type of person I need.

contrast that with two female friends of mine I'd love to date who are super beautiful and not using it to their advantage. everything they're getting they are scraping for and not taking shortcuts. They're not materialistic and don't look at you like you need to maintain me and everything I do to be in a relationship with me.

that type of girl id share joint accounts and stuff and even have her have access to my account because I know she's not gonna do stupid shyt with my money and may even manage it better. the girl in the previous example? not so much
 

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that's $3000 a month. Unless you're a millionaire, spending $3k on miscellaneous things monthly sounds a lil sus

I said not everyday :beli:

And even if i did, i make enough to spend that much and i can spend my husband's money and i get a 10k inheritance check every year. You don't have to be a millionaire to do that. lol.
 
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