Does my co worker want to sleep with me?

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Threads like this make me think about how wise I'll be in the next 10 years. I can see situations like this and know all the angles, the outcomes, everything.

To quote Kobe :"I'm like Neo out this motherf_cker."

Sorry to derail your thread, but do you guys ever feel like that? You see stuff like this and you IMMEDIATELY analyze it and know what it is like the back of your hand? Makes you feel like you're getting mature.

Anyway...

Op if this a white girl with the kind of mindset you're talking about, then there is NO way, and I repeat NO way where you come out of this with a "W".

Even if you get some sex, etc, you will still lose in the end. That's coming from a guy who doesn't talk negative about ANYTHING, but you will take an "L" if you she even lets you hit. I'd bet most of my chips on the "switch up right before it goes down and blame it all on you" card, but even if that card doesn't come out of the deck there's a ton of other ones that are going to net you a Loss.

With that being said, you probably going to go ahead with it unless some crazy circumstance stops you, because if you were mature enough to NOT do something this stupid, then you wouldn't have made this thread in the first place.

Good Luck Sir.

Yeah, I'm definitely guilty of being immature about my desires. I've done some crazy, fukking stupid things just to get laid. What other cards are you talking about?

you're in homegirl zone

Probably dude. Until my co worker brought it up I was just gonna accept that and move on. No need to get involved with someone as emotionally unstable as her.

This is that transitional moment where if you dont make the right move you gonna get friendzoned forever.

Tell her some shyt like, you need to take your mind off this relationship shyt and stop stressing, invite her out for a drink and some mutual "friend" shyt like bowling, or pool, or some shyt where yall can talk outside the job element and youll be in there, but if you dont strike while the iron is hot she more than likely wont look at you like this again.

Yeah that's what I could do, if I decide to go there

She seems like she has a big mouth. I am saying that to say how do you know she won't add you into the list of stories she runs down to the next guy she wants to do?

Most of the time women don't talk to guys about stuff like that unless they are interested...but some women are crazy and can't keep their mouths shut. Slippery slope.

Actually she's one of those quiet girls with mad skeletons in the closet. And if you know her well then she'll let you in, but other then that she actually doesn't really trust anyone--and she says that all of the time. If she does talk stories about me so be it? I've fukked the shyt outta some girls and they still went and talked shyt about me behind my back out of spite. I don't stress things I can't control. But yeah, some women are crazy and will open up and talk about their sex life. I don't get that "crazy" vibe from her. I get that I'm-emotionally-torn-up-confused-about-life-afraid-and-alone vibe. Those type of women can be the most dangerous type of women because they don't have much to lose in playing someone. She told me that she used to fukk dudes and, the moment they caught feelings, would cut them off completely

 

[Still Benefited]

Threads like this make me think about how wise I'll be in the next 10 years. I can see situations like this and know all the angles, the outcomes, everything.

To quote Kobe :"I'm like Neo out this motherf_cker."

Sorry to derail your thread, but do you guys ever feel like that? You see stuff like this and you IMMEDIATELY analyze it and know what it is like the back of your hand? Makes you feel like you're getting mature.

Anyway...

Op if this a white girl with the kind of mindset you're talking about, then there is NO way, and I repeat NO way where you come out of this with a "W".

Even if you get some sex, etc, you will still lose in the end. That's coming from a guy who doesn't talk negative about ANYTHING, but you will take an "L" if you she even lets you hit. I'd bet most of my chips on the "switch up right before it goes down and blame it all on you" card, but even if that card doesn't come out of the deck there's a ton of other ones that are going to net you a Loss.

With that being said, you probably going to go ahead with it unless some crazy circumstance stops you, because if you were mature enough to NOT do something this stupid, then you wouldn't have made this thread in the first place.

Good Luck Sir.

But then you gotta wonder how you will be in the next 10 years,dont forget that...but yeah I do.

I done seen it go the other way,but just based on they interactions it seem like a no go....if ya dikk and what she would do to it aint NEVER involved in the equation when she talkin bout sex,then sex talk really means nothing....if you hadn't already told her you wanted to smash and she was throwin these hints out I would be like "whats wrong with you for not makin a move"....sound like you gave her a when she said no to your advances and now she want ya thirst.....she probably like on the inside and keep escalatin the sex talk to more graphic and graphic shyt hopin you take the bait and boost her ego for a second....I just sit back like "fa real ok(change subject)" with them type of chicks....a female gon get my attention and advances whether she rejected me or not if she still look good....but once I feel like you tryna manipulate me outta my time and attention cuz u think you got me on ya hook....that's when this relationship gotta come to a end

 

[kevm3]

Real talk man, just leave ma alone. For one, ya'll work together, and two, she has a man. You said ya'll have been friends a long time and now she's telling you all the nasty things she does with her man, kind of like the pillow talk a woman has with her girlfriends. Maybe she is dropping you some kind of hint or something, but to me, it's more like she's so comfortable around you she feels she can share with you the things she does with her man. A woman that really likes you, I find she will be very careful about what she says she does with her man because she wants you to 'still respect her', and she'll say she's having problems with her man, but not really go elaborate into detail as if you were in the friend zone. Any way you look at it, it might be tempting, but avoid it.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

But then you gotta wonder how you will be in the next 10 years,dont forget that...but yeah I do.

I done seen it go the other way,but just based on they interactions it seem like a no go....if ya dikk and what she would do to it aint NEVER involved in the equation when she talkin bout sex,then sex talk really means nothing....if you hadn't already told her you wanted to smash and she was throwin these hints out I would be like "whats wrong with you for not makin a move"....sound like you gave her a when she said no to your advances and now she want ya thirst.....she probably like on the inside and keep escalatin the sex talk to more graphic and graphic shyt hopin you take the bait and boost her ego for a second....I just sit back like "fa real ok(change subject)" with them type of chicks....a female gon get my attention and advances whether she rejected me or not if she still look good....but once I feel like you tryna manipulate me outta my time and attention cuz u think you got me on ya hook....that's when this relationship gotta come to a end

Yeah dude it's really fukked up how women's mental be, especially the emotionally unstable. She wants the attention big time. I've shrugged it off mostly because there are too many obstacles to getting the p*ssy, but sometimes I think about it and I'm like fukk it, Ill do it just because I've always wanted to fukk her. Sounds like from what ur saying she's just manipulating me, which is kind of sad since she says that we are close friends

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Real talk man, just leave ma alone. For one, ya'll work together, and two, she has a man. You said ya'll have been friends a long time and now she's telling you all the nasty things she does with her man, kind of like the pillow talk a woman has with her girlfriends. Maybe she is dropping you some kind of hint or something, but to me, it's more like she's so comfortable around you she feels she can share with you the things she does with her man. A woman that really likes you, I find she will be very careful about what she says she does with her man because she wants you to 'still respect her', and she'll say she's having problems with her man, but not really go elaborate into detail as if you were in the friend zone. Any way you look at it, it might be tempting, but avoid it.

That's what I always thought, too

 

[Raava]

Actually she's one of those quiet girls with mad skeletons in the closet. And if you know her well then she'll let you in, but other then that she actually doesn't really trust anyone--and she says that all of the time. If she does talk stories about me so be it? I've fukked the shyt outta some girls and they still went and talked shyt about me behind my back out of spite. I don't stress things I can't control. But yeah, some women are crazy and will open up and talk about their sex life. I don't get that "crazy" vibe from her. I get that I'm-emotionally-torn-up-confused-about-life-afraid-and-alone vibe. Those type of women can be the most dangerous type of women because they don't have much to lose in playing someone. She told me that she used to fukk dudes and, the moment they caught feelings, would cut them off completely

Those are the worst one's, just go with someone else avoid the drama.

Emotional ones are the worst.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Those are the worst one's, just go with someone else avoid the drama.

Emotional ones are the worst.

Yeah I think the opinions in this thread have helped me realize what a mistake it would be to even go through with trying to fukk ol' girl. I'm just going to set up some boundaries and move on.

 

[Banned Account12]

if you don't take the p*ssy on the platter the next time she offer it to you
you gon forever live in the friendzone

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Don't do it

 

[904Lurker]

She seems like she has a big mouth. I am saying that to say how do you know she won't add you into the list of stories she runs down to the next guy she wants to do?

Most of the time women don't talk to guys about stuff like that unless they are interested...but some women are crazy and can't keep their mouths shut. Slippery slope.

He does to.... he already told one co-worker and I'm pretty someone else notices it.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

He does to.... he already told one co-worker and I'm pretty someone else notices it.

wait what?

 

[904Lurker]

Brehs, one of my male co workers keeps telling me that he thinks my other female co worker likes me and wants to mess around. The female is in a relationship, but she always complaining about shyt going wrong with them.

A few weeks ago we somehow started talking about her sex life. Next thing I know she's telling me everything she does for him (sucks his dikk and swallows his cum, lets him do anal; what positions she likes and when she lost her virginity and what she likes to do in bed) and then proceeds to ask me what else can she do to please him. I told her that she should let him cum on her face Then she was asking what should she wear, and also asked if he maybe lost interest in her since he never wants to have sex anymore. She even complained about when she had got butt ass naked in the car and sucked his dikk at a stop light, and he got upset with her because her ass was in the air and the other people across from them could see her She said it wasn't that big of a deal and that he needs to stop being a p*ssy

Anyways this has happened a few times where she will tell me what they have or haven't done during the week. Last week she told me that they went to have sex but after sucking him for a few minutes he came and then got embarrassed because of it

Anyhow I told my male co worker about it, who already knew I had a crush on ole girl and is always saying that she likes me. Tonight we talked about her telling me her sexual secrets and he said he thinks she's testing the waters and that she might want to fukk me.

I honestly don't know what to think. I've been attracted to this girl for years and I'd love to fukk her brains out, but I've always thought we were just platonic friends.

What's the Coli's opinion, brehs? Do girls talk their sex life with nikkas they want to potentially fukk? How should I handle this?

 

[Slimkid07]

Actually the opposite. She's this fine ass slim white girl that has a lot of dudes on her dikk. I've always wrote her off because I thought she was out of my league. I know that no girl is truly out of a girls league, but I just never thought that she was feeling me. A few years ago I asked her if she was and she said that we were just friends, but that was years ago and things can change. We are a lot more open with each other now than we were years ago, too, and at a different point in our lives.

She's white?
Negro, that's all you had to say. I seriously doubt she wants to holla.

Look, a lot of brothas in corporate American get caught up in this BS.
At work, they're so use to sistas not being as forthcoming talking to or outwardly nice to them (mostly because they have to deal with at least 15 thirsty cats in their face everyday so they have the wall up),
so they think that any white chick that smiles or innocently flirts with them wants to holla.
When the brotha tries to put his bid in, he gets his feeling hurt.
Now, don't get me wrong, a cat can do numbers but you have to be really careful at the workplace.

I've seen many brothas get that call to HR or the pink slip because they misinterpreted some white chick's interactions.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Not worried about that, breh.

 

[Cacs R Us]

If you have to ask the question is always no dude.