Do you Respect a Side nikkah?

How do you feel about a sideman?

  • Yeah, I Rate a side nikkah!

    Votes: 6 21.4%
  • Nah, that's bytch shyte!

    Votes: 15 53.6%
  • Meh

    Votes: 7 25.0%

  • Total voters
    28

ill_will82

What you see, is what you get
Joined
Dec 2, 2016
Messages
10,373
Reputation
2,825
Daps
24,509
If you're anybody's side piece you're playing yourself male or female. As for the question: NOPE

Too many ppl in the world to be anyone's second and again you still playing yourself because you don't love or respect yourself.
 

Matt504

YSL as a gang must end
Joined
Sep 7, 2013
Messages
45,217
Reputation
14,767
Daps
273,999
Any nikka that fukks another mans woman is doing this to some degree.

I think its about the emotional investment. If you the "main nikka" and your woman is off fukking some other random nikka in true religions and flip flops then its YOU holding the L, not the young buck.

the distinction is that the "main nikka" is out of the loop and doesn't know he's sharing, the young buck does and is also gambling with his safety by messing with another man's woman. nikkas get killed over shyt like that, ain't enough good p*ssy in the world worth dying over.
 

Suleiman Bey

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2015
Messages
5,610
Reputation
-4,585
Daps
11,186
now being a man means sleeping with another man's woman, no wonder why our community is in shambles.
It doesn't matter if she's another mans woman. Unless you doing it to spite than nikka, it's all on the bytch. When I go out to pull abytch, i ain't worried about who she fukkin before or after me. I'm just tryna get mines.
 

ill_will82

What you see, is what you get
Joined
Dec 2, 2016
Messages
10,373
Reputation
2,825
Daps
24,509
this only applies to women

Uh no because you got dudes out here that still be trying to fool with women who are either married/relationship and trickin' they bread off on her while she can go back home. I think it applies as much to men as it does the women.
 

PeridotPuss

Levels on levels on levels ahead
Supporter
Joined
Jul 27, 2015
Messages
5,590
Reputation
4,015
Daps
23,303
that's called being a man.

no-baby-no-gif.gif
 

Shadow King

Quiet N***a Loud Choppa
Supporter
Joined
Oct 31, 2012
Messages
41,493
Reputation
3,083
Daps
84,463
Reppin
Hometown of Cherokee at Law
That's what's confusing me:jbhmm:

Fukking another nikkah girl is literally sharing that girl. It makes you a side nikkah until she leaves her man and makes you the main. So you gotta rate a side nikkah,no? If you about that kinda life.

kinda want it one way :hula: but it's the other way
The W is that they don't get the emotional investment. I believe in karma so I can't do it plus I don't about sharing them germs...
 

godkiller

"We are the Fury"
Joined
Mar 21, 2013
Messages
26,151
Reputation
-4,700
Daps
35,650
Reppin
NULL
If you're anybody's side piece you're playing yourself male or female. As for the question: NOPE

Too many ppl in the world to be anyone's second and again you still playing yourself because you don't love or respect yourself.

This. Moreover I don't respect people who deceptively help destroy relationships. It's immorality.
 

ill_will82

What you see, is what you get
Joined
Dec 2, 2016
Messages
10,373
Reputation
2,825
Daps
24,509
This. Moreover I don't respect people who deceptively help destroy relationships. It's immorality.

Exactly. I don't get why ppl even play those games because the same way you got that person is the same way you will lose them. It's called karma. I believe whatever energy you put out there is the same energy you will get back.
 

Beedad

All Star
Joined
Jul 14, 2012
Messages
2,948
Reputation
580
Daps
12,328
Reppin
Jersey, Trapped in the 90's
Mains sides and plate makers are all people with unhealed wounds and unhealthy coping mechanisms.

When you become your best self all that extra shyt isn't necessary and falls away....until then folks just pick the part in someones emotional drama that they feel they can play the best. Whether thats side main or plate maker.

None are better than the other.....they are interdependent in their dysfunction.
What's a plate maker?
A chick that makes a plate of food for a dude? I'm lost
 
Top