Do you keep all the nudes of bytches you smashed?

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I’m 32. I didn’t have my first cell phone until I was 16. It was basic, pictures and all that wasn’t a huge thing. The brehs I dated around that time grew up like me. Requests for nudes and selfies wasn’t what was happening. By the time it was a thing, I was much older, in my mid twenties and knew better. Brehs did ask. I wouldn’t do it, I was afraid of the nudes getting around. I had a child to think of at the time. Even now every breh I’ve been on a date with asks for multiple pics and selfies. It’s strange to me. A reflection of the times. I tell them nah. I send 1 or 2 regular pics that’s it. I’ve been asked for nudes, ass pics, the whole works. I say no. I’m grown and know better.


Just a general question

would you do it for your husband?
 

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Why would he ask for a pic when he would see the real thing all the time.

wow...maybe he’s on a business trip or you are...or w/e the case may be he just wants a tease or something that makes him excited about coming home or vice versa
 
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Why would he ask for a pic when he would see the real thing all the time.

im talking like in a situation where lets say he's traveling for business (or perhaps you are) and maybe its been a week or two since you’ve seen each other and homie’s feeling a little frisky and he asks you.

Would that be something you’d be willing to do for him within the marriage?


Again just a general question no judgement
 

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wow...maybe he’s on a business trip or you are...or w/e the case may be he just wants a tease or something that makes him excited about coming home or vice versa

Hmmm.. in that context since he’s my husband, probably would reach a compromise as far as that goes. But this thread is about brehs keeping trophies from relationships, or random hook ups. That’s not the same level of commitment or security.
 

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im talking like in a situation where lets say he's traveling for business (or perhaps you are) and maybe its been a week or two since you’ve seen each other and homie’s feeling a little frisky and he asks you.

Would that be something you’d be willing to do for him within the marriage?


Again just a general question no judgement

I'm judging :hubie: j/k :lolbron:
 

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im talking like in a situation where lets say he's traveling for business (or perhaps you are) and maybe its been a week or two since you’ve seen each other and homie’s feeling a little frisky and he asks you.

Would that be something you’d be willing to do for him within the marriage?


Again just a general question no judgement

See my answer above.
 

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Hmmm.. in that context since he’s my husband, probably would reach a compromise as far as that goes. But this thread is about brehs keeping trophies from relationships, or random hook ups. That’s not the same level of commitment or security.

I was just curious...also it wouldn’t be like it’s a whole body shot where your face is in the pic
 

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Nope. Contacts and any pics/vids are deleted when I stop seeing someone.

There might be digital traces of some pics, but those are so old they were taken with an actual camera
 

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@ the end of the day you can only do what you’re comfortable w/

but this is relatively tame stuff tho that folks do to spice shyt up

I was in an almost 8 year long relationship, he never asked for nudes or to record. There are other ways to spice it up. But like I said to each their own.
 
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