Do you guys go party by yourselves?

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I used to do it when I wasn't with my girl.

I see you mentioned you're not the most outgoing dude , nor am I, but it doesn't take too much effort to spark a little convo with a chick at the bar. When you get a drink and she orders one just inquire about her drink of choice and go from there. But I am a firm believer that if you can't/don't feel comfortable enough in your own skin to enjoy a night out with yourself then something is wrong. Be confident in who you are.

Futhermore, being able to go and leave as you please without having to convince a group or whatever is priceless. Only downside is if you're trying to approach a female in a group, that can be tricky depending on a number of factors.
Ive spent many nights by my own outside so its not really an issue about being comfortable with my own, its just that i usually do go to parties or clubs so i may feel a lil bit weird going alone
 
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I ain't nothin' wrong with hitting a spot solo once in a while. Just hit that shyt up, grab a drink and start spittin'. Of course its funner with a buddy or two, but steppin' solo works too.. If people ask you just say, "yeah I just stepped out the house for a minute, all my friends are at work, so I said f*ck it, might as well":manny:
Thanks for the advice bruh, i think its easier to hit on girls when you solo, since theres no one to bother you
 

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If it wasnt my town yeah id do it for the wildness of it, but seeing people i know see me by myself would look so :sadcam:
but honestly do what u feel like you only lih once plehboi
 

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Yeah, just have a few drinks before you go to the club/bar and just chill. You'll eventually see somebody like you and then you can roll that into more convos and people and more girls
 

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Yeah, just have a few drinks before you go to the club/bar and just chill. You'll eventually see somebody like you and then you can roll that into more convos and people and more girls
lowkey true theres alot of people who go with a group and still look lonely you see girls at tables with lame dudes on their phones like:beli:
thats how i found one of my hoes i was wit my boi doe
 

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Ive spent many nights by my own outside so its not really an issue about being comfortable with my own, its just that i usually do go to parties or clubs so i may feel a lil bit weird going alone
You'll probably feel a little awkward at first, don't sweat it. Just chill , plot your next move and enjoy yourself.
 

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I've never been to the club alone :merchant: that'd just be too depressing.

Bars I've done alone quite a lot, just roll up, find a chair and play it cool. If you feel like talking, talk, if not :manny:
 

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when you approach a girl, come up with some crazy ass story for what happened to "your boy", in order to explain why you had to roll solo...it will easily break the ice, and she'll feel naturally bonded to you and intrigued depending on how good the story is, and how convincing you are. Let the bullsht fly!
 
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when you approach a girl, come up with some crazy ass story for what happened to "your boy", in order to explain why you had to roll solo...it will easily break the ice, and she'll feel naturally bonded to you and intrigued depending on how good the story is, and how convincing you are. Let the bullsht fly!
lol, imma just say we were together but he had to go for some reason and i wanted to stay, or something like that, if ill be drunk i wont really care about the story
 

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i went dolo to a sportsbar/lounge 2 weeks ago to watch the Heat-Nets game. ended up snatching up a chick who was dolo herself. im new to this town and dont know anyone here so its kinda easy for me to go out dolo
 
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