Combination of the two.
I've gotten the girl I wanted, but I also have smashed a few that I didn't care much for but were throwing it at me.
In any legit relationship, the feeling has to be mutual, tho.
That's why these chicks dogged out so much nowadays. A lot of brehs will just use a chick that's throwing it at them, and then move on when they find what they are truly looking for.
Then folks have write to books, make movies, and have seminars trying to convince women to "respect themselves and demand more", when ultimately it's just coded language telling them to loosen their requirements on height, style, and swag.
Tell 'em!!!...
