Do you feel like black men respect black women enough?

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Calling a Black woman you don't know "queen" does absolutely nothing to support her, get over yourself.
I rather black women get called a queen than bytch. Its our way of trying to get more black men to stop calling black women bytches and start calling them a more respectable term.

Excuse us for trying.
 

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Yeah, and that is happening now. They want black men out the work place, out of the dating scene, and out of the conversations. It's like they want to have a Nazi style Wipeout of all black men with a bsckbone.

For black women to get mad at black men for calling them queen is saddening. It's like black men are evil by default.

How about you call women by names they want to be called instead of forcing names into them. Again, if Black women wanted Black men to be wiped out, they could do it single handedly without the help of white supremacists.
 

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How about you call women by names they want to be called instead of forcing names into them. Again, if Black women wanted Black men to be wiped out, they could do it single handedly without the help of white supremacists.

So no black women want to be called queen by black men? :dwillhuh:

So glad we have the representative voice of black women, @Matt504 here to educate us on this subject :ohhh:
 

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I rather black women get called a queen than bytch. Its our way of trying to get more black men to stop calling black women bytches and start calling them a more respectable term.

Excuse us for trying.

You could try to ask her what she would like to be called instead of giving her a name she may not want just because YOU think it's a nice gesture.

Its called game :dahell:
Aint no coronation ceremony going on :mjlol:,

Its not that srs breh:dwillhuh:

That's the problem now, all nikkas want to do is play games.
 

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So no black women want to be called queen by black men? :dwillhuh:

So glad we have the representative voice of black women, @Matt504 here to educate us on this subject :ohhh:

It's always best to call people by their names or by names they allow you to call them, this isn't rocket science.
 

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You could try to ask her what she would like to be called instead of giving her a name she may not want just because YOU think it's a nice gesture.
In a perfect world I would love to get all men to do that but realistically I have to go with what works.

What is working is slowly replacing their use of the negative word "bytch" with the positive word "queen."

Maybe down the line we can get it to where your describing but for now we have to be realistic and take it step by step.
 

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That's the problem now, all nikkas want to do is play games.

Stop playing dumb and obtuse.

I guess if a call a woman lady (derived from nobility btw), it means that I'm not serious, I want to play games and i'm disrespectful... :skip:



Where do they find nikkas like you? :dead:
 

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It's always best to call people by their names or by names they allow you to call them, this isn't rocket science.

Says the guy who is saying that every time a black man calls you something that is not your name he is either insulting you or using an ulterior motive to fukk you.

You claim something is simple while grossly over-complicating the simplest things. :mjlol:

This is why people assume you are always trolling breh... :francis:
 
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I'm too focused on my wife and seed to even notice. I've written off so many of our people it's not even funny. Too many niccas are beyond help. This breed of woman is different, and the niccas would rather encourage their behavior instead of help them.

This is the template we should follow to rebuild our community. So many people giving attention to simp trolls, bed wenches, and everything else beyond self sustainment.
 

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Stop playing dumb and obtuse.

I guess if a call a woman lady (derived from nobility btw), it means that I'm not serious, I want to play games and i'm disrespectful... :skip:



Where do the find nikkas like you? :dead:

Call people by their names, it's literally foolproof.
 

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Call people by their names, it's literally foolproof.

Don't move the goalpost...:ufdup:

You said that women shouldn't trust any man not calling them by the name because he has an ulterior motive to fukk them.

shyt is so black and white to you its crazy.

I have referred to many women as lady that I have no intention to fukk. And none of them came at me sideways for it. How can you explain this reality that exists outside of your absolutes :lupe:
 

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I agree with this.... kinda.
I respect people by default, but they dont have to disrespect me for them to lose my respect.

Honestly, most people lose my respect by disrespecting themselves :ld:

Which includes becoming a stripper right? :jbhmm:
 

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I was listenin to doggystyle today and I started thinkin like man dat whole era was super #HOH :huhldup:

Imagine being a young girl growin up during that time and steadily hearin from men in ur community that women aint shyt and deserve to be disrespected, like that can have a legitimate effect on ur psyche. Its funny a number of men like to constantly point at some women's less then rightous behaviour, but be the same nikkas projecting that behaviour onto all women and propagatin it. Be the same nikkas encouragin other nikkas to treat women like dirt, for no reason other than theyre women.

I mean that conversation is still really relevant today. Just the fact that the word "bytch" is a default term for woman points to men's concept that a woman isn't to be respected until she earns it. If she displays some type of Mother Theresa like holiness then she can get upgraded to a more favorable word, but before that she a bytch.

And then you also think about how a lot of black men have had no problems for yrs praising non-black women and almost making it seem like being a full non mixed or "exotical" black woman is a L, just makes me think. I feel like as black men we have some growin up to do when it comes to gender relations and especially valuing black women in the way they deserve to be.

Please post one Snoop song that says "women ain't shyt" :camby:

bytches and hoes are different than women :camby:
 

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Says the guy who is saying that every time a black man calls you something that is not your name he is either insulting you or using an ulterior motive to fukk you.

You claim something is simple while grossly over-complicating the simplest things. :mjlol:

This is why people assume you are always trolling breh... :francis:
I don't care if peasants think I'm trolling, point is simple, call people by their names, you nikkas are impossible, even if women say "I don't want to be called queen" you idiots will respond "What's wrong with being called queen, completely missing that you can't just call people something because YOU believe it's a nice gesture.
 
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