Do you date women similar to your mom?

Weaver31

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I love my mom but my mom is overbearing, controlling, out of touch with some current shyt and my dad is laid back, quiet and lets her take control.

I've learned by growing up that I cant be like my dad to find a woman. And getting with a woman like my mom would mess up the dynamics of the genders.

But some qualities I want my future wife to have that are like my mom....those are managing money well, saving, and being loyal to her husband.
 

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I suppose you could draw a loose parallel, some of the women, (though not all) I date or am attracted to, are cultured, intelligent, into the arts and have a sense of social conscience/rebel/activist....but, that's me too, which I think is more accurately where that attraction comes from, rather then some form of freakish Oedipus complex.
 

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I suppose you could draw a loose parallel, some of the women, (though not all) I date or am attracted to, are cultured, intelligent, into the arts and have a sense of social conscience/rebel/activist....but, that's me too, which I think is more accurately where that attraction comes from, rather then some form of freakish Odious complex/
I had to google odious complex. That's not what I mean at all:scust:
 

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This is kind of why a lot of black men have disdain for black women. The first woman they loved in many cases was trash, so they project that onto other women who look like her. Same goes for black women. :yeshrug:
 

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A woman like my Mom would be mad boring to me. While she do got qualities I'd love for all the woman I date to have I'd jsve to play into too many of her likes since she's deplore the fukk out of mine in terms of Entertainment and recreation.

Plus sue don't drink. :martin:
 

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No, but sometimes I notice certain qualities that my mom has and I look sideways at myself in the mirror
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