You're right I didn't grow up with a close family. But your best friends should matter to you (In my opinion) just as much as say your cousins or other distant family, or even a brother if they are that close. Not just someone who could be thrown in the bushes because they aren't family if they feel the same way about you.Obviously you didn't grow up with a close family or you wouldn't be saying this shyt
You're right I didn't grow up with a close family. But your best friends should matter to you (In my opinion) just as much as say your cousins or other distant family, or even a brother if they are that close. Not just someone who could be thrown in the bushes because they aren't family if they feel the same way about you.
Two, one that I've been with since we were 4, stayed at his house almost every weeken. Helped him through his times when his brother would beat him (his brother is nice but he would get bursts of anger sometimes that were ridiculous) and his druggie uncle and when his mom tried to take him, hung out daily, he helped me out through the shyt I went through. We went through so much together, more then I went through with my sister so I consider him family and the other one is also that close to me, they're my nikkas.i hear that, but for how long have they been your friends? i got like 5+ friends that we all went to kindergarden together/grew up on the same block/still chill to this day daily...i consider them brothers, not only because of the length of time, but because we ALL always looked out for each other like we was brothers
so if you got friends you wanna call family, how WELL do you know them? can you say for a fact they wont ditch you during hard times and turn they back on you?...it takes time to see shyt like that unfold..
family is always there for you trust me, i've been rated out by people i considered brothers, played by women I loved , been in the hospital nearly on my death bed and none of my "friends" gave a damn
family first
Family can stab you in the back just as easy, I know. Good for your fam though.family is always there for you trust me, i've been rated out by people i considered brothers, played by women I loved , been in the hospital nearly on my death bed and none of my "friends" gave a damn
family first
Two, one that I've been with since we were 4, stayed at his house almost every weeken. Helped him through his times when his brother would beat him (his brother is nice but he would get bursts of anger sometimes that were ridiculous) and his druggie uncle and when his mom tried to take him, hung out daily, he helped me out through the shyt I went through. We went through so much together, more then I went through with my sister so I consider him family and the other one is also that close to me, they're my nikkas.