What? I don't understand what you are saying exactly. Women aren't out here approaching men... at all
. Thing is y'all women aren't universally consistent when it comes to this. Some might be interested but test the guy or play hard to get and say shyt like "I don't give out my numbers to strangers, I don't date (guys of a certain race), I have a boyfriend" etc but y'all are really interested and want the guy to push more then you'll give him the digits. So y'all can blame it on yourselves for dudes not getting the hint that y'all aren't interested.