Do yall consider your.parents good parents?

Dooby

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They raised me within their best interests. Too bad their best interests weren't beneficial.
 

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My mother yes, but she can be really quick to anger. My father, no. If you have a bunch of kids in different locations you can't be there for all of them.
 

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I don't think I could have had better parents. My mom is the most loving, supportive person. I know if i needed anything she would drop everything for me. My dad is a great provider and also very loving, but was strict enough that i respected him and didn't really wild out too much. There was a point where i was wildin when i was a teenager, but i hid it from them because i was ashamed and they still knew that they needed to lead me in a better direction. They've been married for 30 plus years, so seeing a loving stable relationship helped mold me too. They taught me so much about being a good responsible person. They taught me to be responsible with money, the importance of school and hard work. And I was never ever a ho :skip: I'm 28, no kids, own my own house, and have no debt (other than my mortgage). I have a good self esteem, and am overall happy and it's all thanks to how they raised me. I love them more than words can describe :sadbron:
 

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#good thread by the way.

I can relate with a few and say that my parents realy didnt teach me anything ( not to say there wasnt moments, nothing signifigant comes to mind as im typing this) My father was a good provider. He workered through my childhood so I would barely see ( interact) with him however m mother was always there after school trying her best to instill values and morals amongst us ( although I dont agree with everything, I still appreciate it). If I had to say whether my parents where "good parents" I would have to say yes. Just their presence alone would solidify my vote. Just to think about how many children cant relate is freightning. Im not necessarily sure how every household operates but im thankful for the sacrafices my parents made to give/show me a better life than most.
 

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they tried their hardest but all parents fukk up and mine definitely did :yessir:
 

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Real Talk......like what was previously mentioned, the way I am conditioned and was brought up I don't know how to be a family man.

My moms was the loving parent. My pops was the realest nikka ever. Always kept it 100- which aint a good thing. Real talk a nikka needed a good job or some type of positive regard from his pops comin up.

Pops busted his ass workin, makin sure I had clothes on my back, a roof over my head and food in my stomach. nikka took me to baseball and basketball, taught me to ride a bike, swim lessons, taught me about responsibility, accountability. I can't ever thank him enough for that. But it aint 'love'. I don't get a warm feelin like when I was around moms. He's more like my boss at work. I catch up with him and let him know I'm doin what's right and what I need to do and he signs off on it.

Real talk I've always been distant, like I don't even let my closest friends get that close to me. I don't let broads get close to me, I'm not close to my parents or siblings. If I ever had a kid, I could be 'there' physically and go through the motions for 18years or whatever but I don't think I could 'love' them. I could be responsible and accountable and do the right things but at the end of the day itd be like business.

I'd say yea they are good parents. shyt my brothers and sister are close, they talk and laugh and have relationships and shyt but I'm like the black sheep.

Damn this is a depressing ass post.
 

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nobody's upbringing is going to be without flaws.

some of you sound a little overly critical of your parents.
 
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