A lot of women treat men more like an accessory than a human being with thoughts, feelings, and meant to lead.
Many men set themselves up for it by not effectively communicating their expectations or putting their foot down about certain things when necessary.
Some of these women and men to didn't have strong examples of male figures in their home and many of the women watch garbage like Real Housewives and L&HHP along with social media and they see exaggerated caricatures of us and think that's reality and its not.
A man is meant to be strong, lead, and protect not to be an afterthought or some woman's lap dog.