Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

[Arishok]

I need a man's opinion on this topic. So to make a long story short, my friends basically told me I was making it hard for girls like her (who want a commitment) because I want sex from this guy. (I do want to point out, however, that I'm nowhere near easy. It's just I'm really attracted to this guy and instead of waiting around for dates and ish, I wanna cut the bs and skip right to it. Again I don't do this with every guy I meet, actually this would be the first time but I digress.)

So, from a man's perspective, do you think this is true? Honestly, I don't want to trust a woman's perspective because we tend to think with more emotion than logic, no offense to the ladies or myself.

 

[marcuz]

you make it easier for men but harder for women. they hoes too though, they're just trynna get free meals and dates out of the situation.

 

[Arishok]

you make it easier for men but harder for women. they hoes too though, they're just trynna get free meals and dates out of the situation.

How do I make it harder for women, is the question tho.

 

[Malta]

Most dudes want wifey to be difficult to attain, like they conquered Mt. Everest getting inside her and they are the only sherpa with knowledge of getting to the peak. If anyone can get it then it's just not as special and chicks are demoted to simply jump-off status

I don't know if they're making it difficult for other chicks, but hoes for me always made it easy to spot the good chicks and just use the hoes for what their main purpose was.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

That nikka put you in the ho files

when he meets the next one he gone assume she the same
it will be hard for her to change his mind

 

[Mass]

stop over thinking this shyt and do you. Smh.

 

[folasade]

No. If a quality man wants a quality woman he will find them.

 

[Arishok]

That nikka put you in the ho files

when he meets the next one he gone assume she the same
it will be hard for her to change his mind

The thing is, I already know and am cool with this lol. We have a mutual understanding brehs

 

[Ohene]

meh, its a difference between holding out for insecure, superficial reasons and just not being ready to have sex with a dude. Most of us will respect the latter and can tell the difference.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Your friend needs some dikk, IN HER LIFE

 

[MikelArteta]

commitment is the male vagina, back in the day for alot of men to get puzzy oyu had to exchange your commitment for her vagina. Now those days are over, ho's and easy girls have made it that men no longer have to commit, thus the good girls who want commitment etc. are left out in the cold

 

[Arishok]

commitment is the male vagina, back in the day for alot of men to get puzzy oyu had to exchange your commitment for her vagina. Now those days are over, ho's and easy girls have made it that men no longer have to commit, thus the good girls who want commitment etc. are left out in the cold

So you saying I would make it harder for future women he meets?

 

[marcuz]

How do I make it harder for women, is the question tho.

by perpetuating the belief men don't have to make a serious commitment to earn sex

 

[Anothergirl]

Most dudes want wifey to be difficult to attain, like they conquered Mt. Everest getting inside her and they are the only sherpa with knowledge of getting to the peak. .

exactly. they make it easier for dudes to spot quaility if anything.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I'll state my opinion, but I'm in no way saying that I'm right.


A guy who sleeps with a hoe, is most likely a hoe himself. Guys who sleep with hoes, attract hoes. Rarely will you find a guy who sleeps with hoes dating a good genuine girl with her shyt together. A lot of the times you see good guys and good girls together, why because a lot of the time they have similar goals, whether it be their careers or perhaps even a family. Hoes don't have these goals, therefore there's no way for them to actually grow when they're not on the same page, let alone the same book.

I think in all honesty, a friend wouldn't say that, that's something a hater would say.