DMX Breaks Down When His Son Checks Him! + Iyanla: Fix My Life Starring DMX (Full)

[jackswstd]

Never been one to kick a man when he's down even if it's his own doing. I hope he can get himself together cause you can see there's a good dude under the surface.

 

[El Jefe]

this was terrible to watch lol especially when he walked out n chose crack first

damiens nxxt freestyle finna look a lil sumfin like this !!

bAAARRRKS - COUGHS )


its daaark maaan X nukka
fvck bein ya pops
dat shyt goin up n smoooke like da craaack n my cheest nukka

cough.. spits .. burps

now pass me da pipe
imma hit dat shyt like da bytch i brought u around da other nite

gggrrrrrrrr

mf take da X off ya name
bring me on a tv show like im da 1 to shame/.??
naaah crack , cociane aint to blame
i hate my fakkit ass son and im revokin his name




cocaine-crack , meth f my familia :
ill smoke so much shyt that i look unfamiliiiaaar

 

[NZA]

the son did the right thing except he should have picked a better show, dmx is an unrepentant crack head, and iyanla has no business dealing with serious emotional situations

 

[Wild self]

just watched it. damn i guess if u be too hard on ya kids they grow up soft.

Nah, you need to be there for them, and not let extra feminine women raise them.

 

[rapbeats]

A professional would have listened to dmx's origin.
Not cut him off and work a template bases solution plan.
Anyone who knows of dmx and I am by not means a dmx fan.
Yet, I know that man has endured pain on a level most may never know.
For her to just gloss over him being that open.
Was like she said fukk your issues.
I am her to get some drama stirring ratings.
Dmx, deserved better than that.
This is a guy anyone in the half knows he is a genuine guy.
Yet, he is a survivor.
Dmx, and black rob are two of the most tortured from that era.
Neither if they are open to help should have been treated like how Ronda treated dmx.

Just her, being like the drugs are what are causing the issues, was complete bullshyt.
Especially in dmx's case as we all know.
If dmx is using drugs.
It is an an escape and a calm down solution to all the victimized pain he has endured.
For her to just say fukk your history.
Like some he-man male hater club president.
Was uncalled for and a full exposal of the type of fraud this chick is.
I literally has to stop the vid on numerous occassions.
To ask myself,...
Like yo,.....
Does this Ronda chick know anything about kids.
Especially black male from impoverished backgrounds.
Not to mention,...
A background as severely harsh as dmx's unknown full history.
It was obvious,...ronda is not fully who she says she is.
Nor, is she as good as people have given her acclaim to being.



Art Barr

Art, i usually ride wit you on most things. but this time. Let me out the whip. i cant roll wit you on this one.

what you dont realize is DMX has been to numerous counseling sessions on TV and in regular life outside of TV.

this dude X is a professional leather coucher. what i mean by that is this. he's so use to that pain and doesnt want to do the work to change his life. that he would rather just wallow in that pain.

how is that done? you make yourself the victim. you go to counseling. see that makes you look better then 90% of most men in your situation. cause men dont do counseling, especially black men from the hood, his era, and prior.

So everyone thinks "oh wow X really wants help"

sure there's a part of him that does want help. but there's another part. the part that wants to control the counseling session. he did this same thing on the other shows he was on. literally the same X. when he cant control it. he wilds out. see the one negative to counseling or normal counseling when you're a guy like X. is that you end up using it as a cry couch and not actually using it as a stepping stone. it never helps you get up and try something different. you just go there to cry and whine about how tough life was and is because of how you grew up. then you go back out there in the real world and do the exact same nonsense you've been doing. its not helping because X refuses to allow it to help.

thats why he needed a real black women like iyanla to get at him and call him out for trying to play the victim all the time, trying to control the counseling session and actually liking the pain(she asked him multiple times about this).

if any of yall think she did a bad job and X "has a point" then you are just as lost as he is. OR yall didnt see the full show and have never had to deal with the X's of this world.

 

[Awesome Wells]

I can't even bring myself to watch this shyt.

X's situation is just too sad to even witness.

 

[rapbeats]

but again, its not clear that scolding somebody and placing conditions on someone doesn't work, what is your source for this?

his son basically said, i love you but i cant fuk with you, i dont really see how you can fault him for that, now when you show me a link to a professional that says its wrong to say that then i will change my mind



well like i said, i actually agree with some criticism of the son, i think he should not have done it on tv, that lady was not the best person to have there and i think he was selfish to a certain extent, he was probably just tired of being embarrassed and he was too weak to confront dmx himself

but in the end i think he is the victim and he has the right to set rules, he doesnt owe dmx unconditional love, yeah it sounds harsh but that is the way it is, he has to set his lines and be his own man

actually he never said "Dad if you dont stop doing drugs i wont LOVE YOU"

love is unconditional. but LIKE isnt. i dont have to LIKE to be around you. i dont have to be around you as a full grown man if you dont act right. i can love you and be there for you when you're ready to get ya head together.


thats unconditional love. he didnt say "EF you pops, i aint feeling you. and if you dont get off the drugs i hate you forever." or "if you dont stop now i will never speak to you again, even if you stop in the future."

he didnt say that either. he said he loved his pops BUT he cant have a relationship with a person thats high and drunk all the time.

i had a homie that was high a bit to often when we would be around each other. it got to the point where i had to realize. "i cant seriously talk to this guy like i use to. cause he chose herb over a real convo" now he had his reasons why. but thats his reasons. not mine. i dont have to put up with that. i'm grown. talking to high dudes while you're not high aint cute after a certain age.

 

[Wild self]

Art, i usually ride wit you on most things. but this time. Let me out the whip. i cant roll wit you on this one.

what you dont realize is DMX has been to numerous counseling sessions on TV and in regular life outside of TV.

this dude X is a professional leather coucher. what i mean by that is this. he's so use to that pain and doesnt want to do the work to change his life. that he would rather just wallow in that pain.

how is that done? you make yourself the victim. you go to counseling. see that makes you look better then 90% of most men in your situation. cause men dont do counseling, especially black men from the hood, his era, and prior.

So everyone thinks "oh wow X really wants help"

sure there's a part of him that does want help. but there's another part. the part that wants to control the counseling session. he did this same thing on the other shows he was on. literally the same X. when he cant control it. he wilds out. see the one negative to counseling or normal counseling when you're a guy like X. is that you end up using it as a cry couch and not actually using it as a stepping stone. it never helps you get up and try something different. you just go there to cry and whine about how tough life was and is because of how you grew up. then you go back out there in the real world and do the exact same nonsense you've been doing. its not helping because X refuses to allow it to help.

thats why he needed a real black women like iyanla to get at him and call him out for trying to play the victim all the time, trying to control the counseling session and actually liking the pain(she asked him multiple times about this).

if any of yall think she did a bad job and X "has a point" then you are just as lost as he is. OR yall didnt see the full show and have never had to deal with the X's of this world.

Yeah, a lot of heads in the crack era been in pain so much, that they can't imagine themselves doing any better. X literally can't imagine himself being a happy person and let go of that superthug shyt and be a regular person. In fact, anything less than the superthug shyt, scares the shyt outta him. His music can't be out of love and prosperity, just out of pain.

 

[seemorecizzy]

Art, i usually ride wit you on most things. but this time. Let me out the whip. i cant roll wit you on this one.

what you dont realize is DMX has been to numerous counseling sessions on TV and in regular life outside of TV.

this dude X is a professional leather coucher. what i mean by that is this. he's so use to that pain and doesnt want to do the work to change his life. that he would rather just wallow in that pain.

how is that done? you make yourself the victim. you go to counseling. see that makes you look better then 90% of most men in your situation. cause men dont do counseling, especially black men from the hood, his era, and prior.

So everyone thinks "oh wow X really wants help"

sure there's a part of him that does want help. but there's another part. the part that wants to control the counseling session. he did this same thing on the other shows he was on. literally the same X. when he cant control it. he wilds out. see the one negative to counseling or normal counseling when you're a guy like X. is that you end up using it as a cry couch and not actually using it as a stepping stone. it never helps you get up and try something different. you just go there to cry and whine about how tough life was and is because of how you grew up. then you go back out there in the real world and do the exact same nonsense you've been doing. its not helping because X refuses to allow it to help.

thats why he needed a real black women like iyanla to get at him and call him out for trying to play the victim all the time, trying to control the counseling session and actually liking the pain(she asked him multiple times about this).

if any of yall think she did a bad job and X "has a point" then you are just as lost as he is. OR yall didnt see the full show and have never had to deal with the X's of this world.

i feel like we watched something different
the only person trying to control the counseling session was that black lady. i know it's her show and all, but she kept speaking up at da wrong times.

When she shut the fukk up once x returned, they had a actual nice conversation. dmx apologized, said sorry, he tried his best, and they hugged. When X was talking about being a good father for the first 14 years of his life and how he looked out for him, the son was in agreement. X wasnt trying to be a victim, he was just trying to let his son see things from his perspective.

dmx just didn't like the conditional love stuff. he never did

"i'm your dog and i'll die for you
let's keep it like that
give me unconditional love, and i'll give it right back"

honestly, if they just had dat convo on the one vs one, they probably coulda had a solution. but him being scared to talk to his pops without her being in da room and her always needing to add her two piece and feeding him lines, was a disaster waiting to happen.

 

[Awesome Wells]

honestly, if they just had dat convo on the one vs one, they probably coulda had a solution. but him being scared to talk to his pops without her being in da room and her always needing to add her two piece and feeding him lines, was a disaster waiting to happen.

Just watched it.

Nah, she helped him have a voice, for once. X was seriously trying to manipulate his son, by trying to make him accept things that no one should have to. She was pointing out that he needs to actually listen to what concerns his son has, and they were mad valid. But X doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. He actually believes that his actions and self-destruction don't matter to the people that love him.

If he truly loved his children, he'd want to not only be a better father to them, but also a better person in his own right. That's all shorty was asking for. He wants to see his dad well. That's not some huge or unreasonable request. X should want to be in a better place personally, so that he could rekindle that relationship with his son. What she was doing was letting him know that you can't fix the problem if you don't at least give the kid a chance to express what his concerns are.

X is all the way fukked up. The homie is gone, and I don't think he's gonna get any better either. Obviously the drug thing has hurt him, but there's a lot of emotional damage there too. The dude is just lost in life. I doubt anyone will be able to get through to him at this point.

 

[seemorecizzy]

Just watched it.

Nah, she helped him have a voice, for once. X was seriously trying to manipulate his son, by trying to make him accept things that no one should have to. She was pointing out that he needs to actually listen to what concerns his son has, and they were mad valid. But X doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. He actually believes that his actions and self-destruction don't matter to the people that love him.

If he truly loved his children, he'd want to not only be a better father to them, but also a better person in his own right. That's all shorty was asking for. He wants to see his dad well. That's not some huge or unreasonable request. X should want to be in a better place personally, so that he could rekindle that relationship with his son. What she was doing was letting him know that you can't fix the problem if you don't at least give the kid a chance to express what his concerns are.

X is all the way fukked up. The homie is gone, and I don't think he's gonna get any better either. Obviously the drug thing has hurt him, but there's a lot of emotional damage there too. The dude is just lost in life. I doubt anyone will be able to get through to him at this point.

when they were talking back and forth and having meaningful conversation she never said a word

there was arguments in the beginning when she kept interupting, and there was arguments in the end when she told him not to hug x. i'm not saying she did no good at all, but she needed to no when to talk and when to shut up. especially when you dealing with ppl's kids


x doesnt think he's doing anything wrong? he brought down, cried, and apologized. i think he sees some fault in how things turned out between the two of them.

His son wants the best for him, and i honestly do agree that it's probably in his best interest to drop all of the drugs, hit the gym and live a healthy lifestyle, cause he dont seem like he's a good place. i can just see how dmx would have a problem with "conditional love".

 

[Roovers410]

What is more important to x than crack? What makes him escape his past even more than coking himself up..

first you need to know what keeps him alive...well obviously it's not his son...If his son was more important x would have been far more emotional.. no disrespect to the son but its just the way it is...

so the one helping him should go figure out wich thing in the maslov pyramide is fukking him up... make a change in it (wich takes years) and clean him up...

Not going on t.v and do this sh!t.. this will make him more on some "they dont see my pain" kind of sh!t

It can be a 1000 thousands things...and a real counseler will take time to figure it out...(look at the sopranos)

 

[Homeboy Runny-Ray]

how you under 45 years of age and never heard of Google?

alot of people havnt.

no big deal.

Iyanla to DMX: "Do You Want to Live Your Life as a Clean Man?" - Iyanla Fix My Life - OWN - YouTube

who has the full episode?

lol.

this chick is a hack.

 

[Gravity]

DMX is Gator from Jungle Fever status at this point. He just wants his fam to except that he's a crack head. He's running the same old games over and over. While I feel for him and how he had it growing up, that cant continue to be an excuse. His breakdowns don't even seem genuine anymore, he was wiping away tears that weren't even there If he doesn't wake up and change he'll end up dying alone.

 

[Homeboy Runny-Ray]

@Gravity

what family was involved with this show? dmx' bitter wife and their son who she obviously influences? neither of whom are around him.

to be real, all i took from this is that the son feels that X did his mom dirty. that seems to be the real grudge. and i can dig it. especially with his mom constantly in his ear. i understand. and i know seeing chicks walk up and kiss X in the lips in the midst of all that, definitely f**ked with him.

but drugs arent the real gripe here. neither is the parenting. the son basically fell back whenever dmx shut down the idea of him being a bad dad.

this was a well-calculated smear-piece.