Her father planted that seed in her head
How you Nigerian and shytting on your own people like that to your daughter
That nikka was running from something and will regret this later
My daughter is half Filipino and I ain’t never said no shyt like this
Her mother and I made it a mission for her to know both sides of her history
Now she does gravitate more to her black side just because of me and her own observations in life but she never shyts on her Filipino side just cause
Her father is ignorant and passed that bullshyt on to her and her Japanese mother ain’t gon fight back because they have a nationalistic pride to them
Japanese nikkas ain’t gon take her serious because of it and can smell the insecurity on her
And are just as nationalistic
So marriage is either out of the question or it’s gon be some abusive ass shyt unless she meets a progressive Japanese cat with a progressive Japanese family
Her father got her scared to jump off the porch out here and is limiting her experience
This is a masterclass in what not to do when you have kids
You raise kids to explore, learn and make their own decisions
Not kneecap them
Yeah she may feel more comfortable speaking Japanese but when she said being stared at makes her uncomfortable
Yeah he raised a mark for the wolves out here and this will also shrink her growth