Dear Nice Guy, She Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But She is Now

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I agree, and that's one thing that bothers me somewhat is nice genuine people (not fake nice guys) being taken advantage of. And women will string em along until they drain em day.




I'm not bitter just disappointed. It's like getting off the expressway and seeing your childhood hero standing on the corner with a please help sign. i was kinda devastated when i realized most women have no morals or integrity and will do whatever they're allowed to do.

I realize that not all women are like this. I also realize that a high percentage of them are. To me you should be who you are always because that's you. because you have a creed, principles, morals and integrity. you shouldn't be who you are because person x will let you do this and that so you behave in a manor that you believe they will find pleasant so you can get stuff out of them.

if a woman asks me for money and i give it to her her next move is to ask for more money and if i give that to her i go into the trick bag. she'll deal with me only because she can now use me for money. when i catch on and confront her about it she'll say something along the lines of i didn't make you do those things you chose to. she may be right but those are the sorts of things morally reprehensible people say to themselves because their actions are in direct conflict with their self image.

if she had integrity the moment she realized she wasn't into me she would have cut me loose instead of continuing to deal with me under false pretense so she can take whatever she can get from me. if women had integrity simps wouldn't exist.
 

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I agree, and that's one thing that bothers me somewhat is nice genuine people (not fake nice guys) being taken advantage of. And women will string em along until they drain em day.
I'm gonna put it like this. My and my friend go out and get wasted I got $1000 in my pocket and my friend knows it. They hold their liquor better than me and I black out. My friend takes the $1000 out of my pocket and keeps it because I'm so wasted they know they can do it and get away with it. I'll never know what happened anyway. The next day I ask them about it and they play dumb like they didn't know I had it and didn't take it. 6 months later I find out they took it from what they said to another friend and confront them and they say "I didn't make you get drunk and pass out you did that to yourself. If you didn't do that you'd still have that money."

That's friend's morality is how many women behave. That's their level of morality. I can do this and get away with it so I'll do it. It's not my fault I did it it's the victim's fault for putting me in the position to get away with it.
 

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I'm not bitter just disappointed. It's like getting off the expressway and seeing your childhood hero standing on the corner with a please help sign. i was kinda devastated when i realized most women have no morals or integrity and will do whatever they're allowed to do.

I realize that not all women are like this. I also realize that a high percentage of them are. To me you should be who you are always because that's you. because you have a creed, principles, morals and integrity. you shouldn't be who you are because person x will let you do this and that so you behave in a manor that you believe they will find pleasant so you can get stuff out of them.

if a woman asks me for money and i give it to her her next move is to ask for more money and if i give that to her i go into the trick bag. she'll deal with me only because she can now use me for money. when i catch on and confront her about it she'll say something along the lines of i didn't make you do those things you chose to. she may be right but those are the sorts of things morally reprehensible people say to themselves because their actions are in direct conflict with their self image.

if she had integrity the moment she realized she wasn't into me she would have cut me loose instead of continuing to deal with me under false pretense so she can take whatever she can get from me. if women had integrity simps wouldn't exist.

Most people don't have integrity. If I went around complaining about the men that didn't have morals I would never shut up, shyt most of the dudes in this thread that are complaining about women without morals, don't have morals.

I agree, and that's one thing that bothers me somewhat is nice genuine people (not fake nice guys) being taken advantage of. And women will string em along until they drain em day.

:leostare:

"Why would any man be bitter? Its never been easier to get sex, its never been easier to string along a single mom or low self esteem girl." - Reincar

I guess it only bothers you when it's a man being strung along and drained.
 

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I agree, and that's one thing that bothers me somewhat is nice genuine people (not fake nice guys) being taken advantage of. And women will string em along until they drain em day.
Simps deserve all the pain they get, nikka. Weak asses deserve to get clowned, disrespected, betrayed and made cuckolds. fukk them idiots.
 

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This is not a gender specific issue. There are guys who pass up "nice girls" for sexy "bad bytches" all the time. Then after being shytted on enough times, they see the light and pick a nice girl to wife. Some of you guys always try to make women the culprit of all things bad.
 

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fukked up part about this is this woman probably believes her own bullshyt. In reality she pissed away her youth chasing after guys who had no intention of wifing her and now that she's reached an age where the younger models of her kind have rendered her obsolete she's ready to settle for some lovable loser who'll gladly take her because he's so desperate to get his dikk wet he'll throw his dignity and self-respect out the window and be her consolation prize.

She's not ready to date a nice guy the bad boys just won't have her anymore and nice guys are all that's left. This chick didn't decided to lower her standards she was forced to.



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I'm not complaining.
I'm not 30 with kids complaining I can't find a good woman.

I'm not 30 wondering where all the nice woman are.

I'm not thinking of all the nice girls I passed up singing lullabyes to b*stard seeds


and complaining about women that don't live their lives how you expect them to is sad and disgusting behavior as well, my good sir.
 

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This is not a gender specific issue. There are guys who pass up "nice girls" for sexy "bad bytches" all the time. Then after being shytted on enough times, they see the light and pick a nice girl to wife. Some of you guys always try to make women the culprit of all things bad.
 

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Most people don't have integrity. If I went around complaining about the men that didn't have morals I would never shut up, shyt most of the dudes in this thread that are complaining about women without morals, don't have morals.
for a woman to go out and find a regular square guy that would be a good father to his children and would take care of her is actually not that difficult. those men are actually pretty common and women pass on them and or use them all the time. call them boring, put them in "the friend zone" ect.

as a man to go out and find a good woman equivalent is very difficult. many women will play that role and defraud you using sex or whatever else they can to manipulate you so they can turn you into a utility in their lives.

the two situations don't compare.
 

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I'm not complaining.
I'm not 30 with kids complaining I can't find a good woman.

I'm not 30 wondering where all the nice woman are.

I'm not thinking of all the nice girls I passed up singing lullabyes to b*stard seeds

You're right, you're almost 30 complaining about the women that turned you down for "bad boys", the women you say you don't want.

huge diff.

what about your great white buffalo? :patrice:

what about the guys constantly talking about "the one that got away"? The good women they cheated on, the good women they used? or does that not count?
 

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TYRONE GA!
all these whores thinking they can be complete and utter sluts in their twenties only to get married in their 30s :mjlol: life has got a rude awakening for these seadonkeys

Yup.

But there will always be suckers.

Gotta teach your sons and daughters who is and who isn't marriage material.
 
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