Dear Coli-Men/Boys/Frustrated Simps/Unclassified Genders

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

I only used that analogy to counter your opinion that sex matters (testing for Adams apple, etc) because it really doesn't.

And that's your opinion of what a perspective should be, that doesn't make it true for everyone else.

Indeed.

My truth is no one else's but mine.

 

[Tyuhnjko]

I only used that analogy to counter your opinion that sex matters (testing for Adams apple, etc) because it really doesn't.

And that's your opinion of what a perspective should be, that doesn't make it true for everyone else.


Lol. Nerd? Is that supposed to be an insult. Just let me know if you want to go that route.

I dont think any one is forcing anyone to do anything. It's the Internet as you stated. OP just offered a perspective, many of y'all caught feelings/tried to shame/did what was done to you instead of being better people. In the end, it's all just a cycle of stupidity or whatever.

Take that debate to higher learning. This thread has been done to death already.

And no, nerd is not an insult. I'm just being silly. Pull your boxers out of your tight ass.

Now back to my cycle of stupidity...


I'm such a bad person! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Take that debate to higher learning. This thread has been done to death already.
And no, nerd is not an insult. I'm just being silly. Pull your boxers out of your tight ass.
Now back to my cycle of stupidity...
I'm such a bad person! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

Lol. You are taking things personally.

 

[Sansprix]

Nope, I just wanted to ask Qs & they've been answered now. I'm not interested in sticking around. Take care!

Good because you ruining it for us females who actually take these dudes for what they are and don't take this shyt so seriously.

When they refer to women as bytches and hoes, I know they not talking about me so why do I give a fukk? There are women who act like bytches and whores, so you should be directing you're rants at those women who need to be schooled on how to act.

You might as well go back to LSA (I'm assuming that's where you from) and hang this shyt up. We have enough female perspectives on this board already and don't need your holier than thou attitude.

 

[Tyuhnjko]

Oh, and are you aware that the alias is trying to run females off this board?

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Don't think the opinions posted on here are all that negative. Dudes just keeping their guards up, being conscious of their dealings with women.

Women get offended when men move like this. Seems like whenever a dude isn't brown nosing women, they are labeled as bitter or homo. Most women ain't shyt. You can probably say the same about dudes.

 

[Tyuhnjko]

Lol. You are taking things personally.

Please tell me this is sarcasm.... Because I'm being extra sarcastic... pls tell me it's not going over your head.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Aight, I'll bite...

Insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results. It's not the past if it keeps happening, and if you don't learn from it eventually, the shyt'll kill ya. This may explain why some of us have seemingly hostile attitudes towards women. It's not that we hate them- it's that we like them so much, it's a damn shame we can't show it too much because it'll lead to nothing but trouble.

When you have seen a pattern, not only in women you deal with but women in general... a pattern that involves disloyalty, flat-out lying, selfishness, and sense of entitlement... and it is a repeated pattern... can you even call it a past experience, or do you call it an everyday occurrence? And it's not always something to do with the women we choose. It's not just a specific type that do this, it can be that chick who's always partyin', OR that one who mostly stays to herself. It's not a male thing or a female thing, it's a human thing. The same women who scream "nikkas ain't shyt", ain't shyt themselves half the time. The same women who always swear nikkas tryin' to get over on them, are the MAIN ONES manipulating the shyt outta every man she deals with. And even worse, the same women who act like they deserve respect, will be the first ones to fukk with someone who doesn't respect them in the least bit.

As a man, I've learned that it's counterproductive to be respectful to those who only reward disrespect. In the end, I'll be the only one who gets kicked in the ass. I don't doubt that there's women out there who still command and deserve respect. But per my OWN experiences, respect only goes but so far before you're considered a sucker, and not by other nikkas but by the same woman you're being respectful to. It's a wonder I don't hate women at this point... but I never will become THAT bitter or spiteful towards them. But in learning to treat women accordingly, I've learned the hard way to start givin' less of a fukk, and it's worked out so far so good.

Thanks for your honest reply!

Before I begin my response, I'd like to warn readers, that I may refer to God a lot, but that's only because my faith has shaped my views/identity. Firstly, I'm sorry you had bad experiences, and your frustrations are justified. Nevertheless, respect does not equate emasculation. You can still be firm with a woman, and tell her you will not accept x or y Z behaviour in a respectful manner.

My personal thoughts on the matter is that the unity between a man and a woman should only be kept between the walls of marriage. There is a reason why statistically virgins stay married longer on average. I believe it is the moral corruption of this generation that has led to the problems of "love", that people face nowadays. Women have been tricked into believing that their body is not sacred, and as a result men have began objectifying women for an array of reasons, some you have just mentioned. I believe women set the standard for society, which is why it pains me when I see them act in a distasteful manner. Unfortunately, the blame resides with both genders. Men continue to encourage females (what I've witnessed so far) and women feed off the attention. Most people don't realize that even if they don't believe in God or follow a specific dogma, they still worship something. Whether that something is money, women/sex, yourself, any desire....you decide. I'm going a bit off topic now...

Back to topic - I think people need to understand that the result of the dating world is years of social-conditioning. Those in power WANT this to happen. Look at the world of celebs.. glorifying skimpy outfits and singing songs about sex. From a young age, children are encouraged to engage in activities they're not ready for.. and this is what's left. A group of people broken spiritually and emotionally... both young men and women. No-one trusting anyone. It's a sad world.. and I find refuge with God. Not everybody is part of the social degeneration that's happening before our own eyes. You can't fight fire with fire. Why burn others when you know the feeling of how it is to be burnt? If you don't like the "games" then throw deuces & find someone with a similar mindset to yourself.

 

[Black]

Now when did women start thinking their opinion mattered?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Oh, and are you aware that the alias is trying to run females off this board?

I don't care. It's not like I'm trying or want to get at any of you.

Please tell me this is sarcasm.... Because I'm being extra sarcastic... pls tell me it's not going over your head.

I can tell you are (trying to be)/being sarcastic, you're just not doing a good job at it/not funny lol

 

[TeFLoNBoMBz]

You can watch a women like a hawk and finally decide okay she's great the one I want to be with 5 yrs later she gets bored hits up Facebook and gets her back blown out by her ex bf because "you weren't paying enough attention to her"

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

definitely an alias

she said "This can't be life"

typical SOHH lingo

That's a common internet slang... I rarely use slang but I find that one quite funny. YOLO

 

[Xtraz2]

Cool. I'll think about it... I don't really understand why I have to prove I'm a female. Are there men out here pretending to be females? This can't be life...

 

[Tyuhnjko]

I don't care. It's not like I'm trying or want to get at any of you.

I can tell you are (trying to be)/being sarcastic, you're just not doing a good job at it/not funny lol

Sarcasm doesn't have to be funny, Princess. Why are you so boring?

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Sarcasm doesn't have to be funny, Princess. Why are you so boring?

I honestly have no interest in entertaining you lol. You're obviously mad now that you're trying to insult me, again. Guess it wasn't just "sarcasm".