Dear ‘Broke’ Men: Don’t Punish A Woman for Not Wanting to Date You (EBONY)

[Savvir]

I dont get the anger in here...

if you have game you don't need to have money to date.

 

[DaHNIC82]

I'd ask Ok bytch what are you bringing to the table to make you think you're obligated to someone else wealth? You won't shooting in the gym

 

[Taadow]

If broke nikkas are out here getting mad that bytches aren’t trying to fukk/date, then so are broke females, baby mommas, etc., getting mad that nikkas don’t want to “date” them either.

Let's go deeper...

Are broke niccas "out here getting mad that bytches aren't trying to fukk/date" more than
_____ females "getting mad that nikkas don't want to date them"?

Because I see that's it's women writing these articles, not dudes...I think for the most part dudes know the game is fucced up, and either try to adapt to the game or say fucc the game altogether. I don't know how many are really "mad". But the ladies writing these articles and going on Steve Harvey's show asking for help seem pressed.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Let's go deeper...

Are broke niccas "out here getting mad that bytches aren't trying to fukk/date" more than
_____ females "getting mad that nikkas don't want to date them"?

Because I see that's it's women writing these articles, not dudes...I think for the most part dudes know the game is fucced up, and either try to adapt to the game or say fucc the game altogether. I don't know how many are really "mad". But the ladies writing these articles and going on Steve Harvey's show asking for help seem pressed.

I was gonna go deeper but you said what what I was underlying

nikkas aren’t writing these articles... and IMO, broke men aren’t the ones upset enough to do so.

I been broke before.. I wasn’t upset a female didn’t want to date me. I didn’t think she was obligated, in fact... when I was broke is when I had one of my closest, most consistent relationship.

When I wasn’t broke no more is when I felt loneliest. Females I messed with felt like I was obligated to do shyt for them because I was making money or significantly more money than them.

Now I’m like fukk these hoes altogether and just gonna focus on me broke, rich, middleclass, etc. idgaf about dating (even tho I technically am dating)

 

[Falcozer]

Waiting for an article with a title that reads, ‘Dear Black Men: We Are Not Obligated To Date You’


It’s coming.

It's being written as we speak, the agenda doesn't come full at once, gotta prepare the ground beforehand

 

[Left.A1]

Everybody has their preferences



fukk who you want




Boo up with who you want





Divorce rate is 50% either way you slice it

 

[Coli Bot]

The freedom of not trying to impress a woman or caring about what they want is pretty nice.

 

[Cynic]

Ok, sis...

They changed the title; from 'Dear Broke Men: We Aren't Obligated to Date You'



Dear Broke Men: We Aren't Obligated to Date You

A man of means writing this title would unleash hell...

"Dear Older Women: We aren't obligated to Date You"

 

[Coli Bot]

Articles like this is why there's a disconnection between men & women specifically in our communities because everything is about money. When I read these articles it tells me these women don't want love they want money, the big white picket fence, the expensive luxury cars etc etc just a bunch of fantasy living & probably are the type to brag about how a man needs to make over 100k in salary (when majority of them don't even make anything close to that) just to have a chance to blow their back out when they've already done constantly let flipping burger type dudes bust em down back in high school/post graduate.

Give them all that shyt and they will still complain. Probably complain that their bored and your not exciting enough coz you gave them everything. Try to make woman happy brehs.

 

[TEH]

You seriously answering someone named TheNig - you know this is 95% probably a troll cac

dude sit your lame ass down,this women only talk shyt because they are the gatekeepers, when their back is against the wall they got nothing to say then GTFOH.

 

[GoddamnyamanProf]

If we prefer someone who is more financially stable, that does not mean that we are heartless, gold-digging and superficial. It simply means that maybe your paycheck isn’t the issue, but your character and confidence is.

Article makes zero sense

 

[Reece]

The median American worker has $12,000 by retirement. That’s it. Google it. It’s not pretty. I don’t know where these hoes plan on finding all these millionaires at but good luck.

 

[j.smooth4]

Vice Versa....

Broke women, single moms, overweight bytches, etc.

Don't feel bad if a nikka doesn't want to "date", marry, etc., to you either.

This to a tee a lot of these educated women are drowning in debt, live above thier means, and are underpaid

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I don't think anybody's punishing anybody for anything, outside of old media publications being desperate for clicks, and going the route of new black media, dissing a segment of black men to make a large consumer base feel good about itself...so it can continue to wealth signal on credit.

 

[j.smooth4]

Willing to bet the amount of her student loans that this bytch broke as hell. Why are people getting dumber instead of smarter with all the instant knowledge we have at our fingertips?

$50,000 a year after taxes and an $900+ apartment, $350 car note, utilities, $400 student loan payment, credit cards, 580 credit score and 8 people sharing a motel room on a trip to Essence Music festival does NOT make you any less broke than the dudes you tryin to humble.

Ladies if this is you: STAPH IT!