Put that house in the name of a trust for the kids, not the mom. She doesn't need to sell that and take the profits - let that go to the kids in the future. Plus if she screws up you (as Trustee) have the right to boot her out.
Dead Husband's Side Piece and Children: What would you do?
- Thread starter SouthernBelle
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You're a saint worthy of praise.
Obviously, he wanted to keep both his lives seperate. He also did not wish to give them anything.
If she asks me for something, I'll give the kids gifts, money for school, things that they need. She gets nothing tho. She ain't no kin to me. Children don't choose they're parents.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
No saint over here but I appreciate the praiseYou're a saint worthy of praise.
1. I'm not even planning/attending his funeral. fukk him.
2. She had to have known he was married. fukk her, she won't ever see me again.
3. If he cared about them kids, he would have left them something. If she cared, she wouldn't have spent the last almost 10 years sitting on her butt expecting a married man to take care of them forever. They ain't getting nothing.
Lawd, this situation is a mess.
2. She had to have known he was married. fukk her, she won't ever see me again.
3. If he cared about them kids, he would have left them something. If she cared, she wouldn't have spent the last almost 10 years sitting on her butt expecting a married man to take care of them forever. They ain't getting nothing.
Lawd, this situation is a mess.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I heard a story like this IRL... well its different.
An old coworkers father was cheating on her mom for years (she was in her late 30's). When he died his mistress and her mother showed up at the funeral and was trying to get money. They were crying saying they had no where to go and nothing
Two grown women. He didn't leave them anything either and his wife was like kick rocks.
An old coworkers father was cheating on her mom for years (she was in her late 30's). When he died his mistress and her mother showed up at the funeral and was trying to get money. They were crying saying they had no where to go and nothing
Two grown women. He didn't leave them anything either and his wife was like kick rocks.
Hopefully a vacation on his dime will heal my wounds
I'll cry on the plane
my queens
not sure if serious.
Hopefully a vacation on his dime will heal my wounds
I'll cry on the plane
I am
I love an admire women who toss cheaters in the garbage instead of forgiving
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
what if your stepfather held these views
idk how the situations are the same but, he's allowed to have any views he wants. It's his life.
Cheater is already dead in this case.
Although I just re-read the original post and it makes no mention of him asking me for forgiveness, no explanation of any kind.
hmmm... I guess I would be looking at the tax benefits for me and mine, go from there.
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