SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
Got this from another board. What would you do in this scenario:
Dead Husband's Side Piece and Children: What would you do?
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Obviously, he wanted to keep both his lives seperate. He also did not wish to give them anything.
If she asks me for something, I'll give the kids gifts, money for school, things that they need. She gets nothing tho. She ain't no kin to me. Children don't choose they're parents.
fukk those kids, and their mama. 
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
explain. How are the posters thus far haters?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I'm not taking care of an adult and not my kids, not my responsibility.
feelosofer
#ninergang
I would do something for the kids, they didn't ask for this its not their fault. If my family and I were fine, I know honestly I couldn't be cold like that to children. I don't know what though or how much... Their mom would need to get off her butt and provide for her kids. I will not be supporting the family. What kind of woman anchors herself to a situation like that and have nothing for herself? That foundation was shaky in the first place. And he knew he was dying and left them nothing.
M
How many men take care of seeds that don't belong to them
Or pay child support
Its funny how y'all are quick to say no to helping her
Many more women take care of children that aren't theirs than men do.M
How many men take care of seeds that don't belong to them
Or pay child support
Its funny how y'all are quick to say no to helping her
Seems reasonable.
At the very least I'm putting money into a fund with the children. I would agree to buying the mom a home but I would need to see if she was working and all that. Also it wouldn't be a large home, just something that is stable and nice place for the kids to grow up in.
Did she know she was a side piece? She should've worked that out with him. Because if she knew, she's a fukking idiot for messing with a married man in the first place, and an even bigger dumbass for giving him kids. My sympathy for her would be nonexistent.
That being said, I couldn't leave those kids out to dry. I'm not giving her a monthly salary or anything like that. I'd give her a little start up money (one time deal) so she can get a damn job and I'd completely cover the kids college funds. That's about it and sounds pretty fair to me.
That being said, I couldn't leave those kids out to dry. I'm not giving her a monthly salary or anything like that. I'd give her a little start up money (one time deal) so she can get a damn job and I'd completely cover the kids college funds. That's about it and sounds pretty fair to me.