dating websites?

[Giselle]

Have you ever used one?

Would you recommend it or naw?

Never date online, especially if you're under 40 with no kids. It's better to meet people in person.

People are crazy. It's easier to notice crazy in person rather than online.

If you go do activities you like and meet a partner there, you already have something in common. You can start off more like friends, so there will be less preassure which means less nervousness.

Also, there is no catfishing in person.

Speaking of catfishing, has anyone else noticed that google's reverse image search doesn't work as well anymore? It used to link you to other sites with the exact picture, but now it only shows you "similar images" and the images are never really similar. Like, I could reverse search a picture of rih wearing some black sunglasses. Instead of linking me to other sites that have that same exat pic or rih, they'd show me images of black sunglasses. They should really fix that. I like the old one better. Now that I think about it, they probably changed it bc of the gorillla/black person incident. They should fix that and change it back though instead of getting rid of it. I think I'm going to email them about it to see what they say.

I've used thecoli before. Bad results, I don't recommend it. I heard Plenty of Fish and Match.com are good

Girl!

You're funny

 

[VFib]

Did they find pawgs or black males

Just wondering

Beloved

None of the women are black.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I did okcupid when I was like 19, but there was so many guys messaging me I couldn't keep up so I just deleted it. Some of the guys would send multiple messages back to back, I guess they thought it would get my attention but it was annoying.

Meeting ppl irl has worked better for me. I just had to stop automatically rejecting guys because I was nervous.

 

[Smoke]

Would what a guy puts on his about me, and various other parts of the profile you have to fill out make you interested if say for instance he wasn't much of a looker?

 

[VFib]

Would what a guy puts on his about me, and various other parts of the profile you have to fill out make you interested if say for instance he wasn't much of a looker?

Are you looking to hook up or a relationship with a quality woman?

 

[Woman of god]

I've used pof before. It's ok but it takes some good weeding out skills. There are some fish worth catching

I'm going to make a new profile this week probably. I just found out via fb that my ex bf has a new girl and I'll be damned if I let him close out 2016 with a loving relationship and I don't have one

 

[Smoke]

Are you looking to hook up or a relationship with a quality woman?

I'd settle for either one, beggars can't be choosy

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

I did okcupid when I was like 19, but there was so many guys messaging me I couldn't keep up so I just deleted it. Some of the guys would send multiple messages back to back, I guess they thought it would get my attention but it was annoying.

Meeting ppl irl has worked better for me. I just had to stop automatically rejecting guys because I was nervous.

and here I get happy if someone just views my profile back after I message them

at least they thought about it

 

[VFib]

I'd settle for either one, beggars can't be choosy

Well if you are looking for a girlfriend, do not post shirtless pictures, or pictures of you laying in bed. They scream "I'm just looking for some p*ssy". Post pictures of you having fun, and please look neat. Limit the pictures of you wearing oversized clothing. Show your face. Don't hide under hats and sunglasses.

No:

Spoiler

When writing in the About Me section, use spell check. You want a woman to take you seriously? Don't write things like "Yo, whats good. I be gettin money and I lookin 4 a shorti who grinds lik me. Ya feel me? HMU"

If you are looking for just sex, then do all the above.

 

[Ol’Otis]

None of the women are black.

you look like Jordin Sparks a little bit

 

[Ol’Otis]

I've used pof before. It's ok but it takes some good weeding out skills. There are some fish worth catching

I'm going to make a new profile this week probably. I just found out via fb that my ex bf has a new girl and I'll be damned if I let him close out 2016 with a loving relationship and I don't have one

i pm'd you twice
you never responded

 

[VFib]

you look like Jordin Sparks a little bit

That is Jordin

 

[Ol’Otis]

That is Jordin

dammit

 

[Woman of god]

i pm'd you twice
you never responded

stop playing u know I'm just a hop skip and a jump from being a black feminist

 

[Ol’Otis]

stop playing u know I'm just a hop skip and a jump from being a black feminist

so i have permission or nah?

i'm confused