Dating a younger woman as an old nikka?

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Think it’s relatively common - I’ve only ever dated guys older than me. Usually 5+ years just think the maturity levels line up better idk
 

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What ppl miss is there is a glaring difference here: this young lady is being paraded around as his “committed girlfriend”. He’s in a “relationship” with her.

He isn’t being recorded paying some 19YO “25k per cheek” and being telling her he’s going to choke her in public, and he isn’t being recorded with clips of a sex tape going around to different news outlets.


Belichek is holding her hand in public!

We all know what it is, but he isn’t hiding her in the shadows like some wh0re and putting the money on the table. :mjlol:



SHANNON played both sides with this chick and that’s where he lost.

White chicks are about that money. He should’ve kept it completely business with an experienced h0 or found some young chick willing to play house in the media for some money.
 

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Think it’s relatively common - I’ve only ever dated guys older than me. Usually 5+ years just think the maturity levels line up better idk
It is common to find men with women within a 10-year age gap. I think it gets less common as you go north of 10 years, and that's when you find mf's questioning shyt...

Personally, I always said, since Hov is 12 years older than Bey, that's the max for me. I'll be 36 in 6 weeks or so, so 12 years would be 24 as the absolute lowest I would go---->and that feels like a stretch. She'd have to be an elite 24 year old 🤣 although, I met this 25-year old a few months back who kinda surprised me, gotta see if I can find her again 🤣

My kids' mothers are 7 and 5 years younger than me. Ultimately I prefer a window within that range, going under 30 is kind've repelling now...
 
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It is common to find men with women within a 10-year age gap. I think it gets less common as you go north of 10 years, and that's when you find mf's questioning shyt...

Personally, I always said, since Hov is 12 years older than Bey, that's the max for me. I'll be 36 in 6 weeks or so, so 12 years would be 24 as the absolute lowest I would go---->and that feels like a stretch. She'd have to be an elite 24 year old 🤣 although, I met this 25-year old a few months back who kinda surprised me, gotta see if I can find her again 🤣

My kids' mothers are 7 and 5 years younger than me. Ultimately I prefer a window within that range, going under 30 is kind've repelling now...
Makes a lot of sense. I’m 34 and I don’t think I’d be able to date anyone younger.
 

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Think it’s relatively common - I’ve only ever dated guys older than me. Usually 5+ years just think the maturity levels line up better idk



The rates have been goin up this decade specially in bigger cities. Gen Z women are the first gen of women out earnin male counterparts, on average more educated. Over 60% of men under 30 are single and that rate is much higher than that of women of the same age range.....so it's obvious what's happenin.

Most Gen Z men haven't even approached a woman in real life and a large majority of em get their fix off social media, porn, gamin, anime, vapes, Doordash and all that other stuff. They're not even interested in datin or pursuin em, and a lot of the ones that might try are too socially awkward, swagless, low confidence and a lot of those men have bought in heavy to that red pill manosphere shyt. Turnin incel, real hate for women and wit all that they steal lean majorly right while women are more liberated and progressive than ever. I don't think any generation has a political divide this large between genders just look at this last election male and female votin split shyt was crazy.

A lot of these Gen Z men want all this traditional shyt from women yet they are not traditionally masculine men themselves. Can't provide, no confidence, low testosterone, addicted to social media, porn, gamin, anime, vape, and if ya actually know Gen Z people or even go outside you'll see Gen Z women wit older guys every day. So these Gen Z nikkas got all these deep rooted personal problems from what they're exposin themselves too since a early age from internet and have a self defeatist attitude that get em turnin to red pill manosphere shyt not even tryin to improve yet they very opposite politically from most they female counterparts and these Gen Z women are earnin MORE than em too...... This shyt been buildin up and the rates of millennial men wit Gen Z women is only gon increase this decade wit societal trends specially as AI and virtual reality start REALLY poppin off. The age gap ain't even societally and culturally as big as previous gens like boomers and Gen X cause millennials grew up wit internet and social media too but they still got the last of the real life outside shyt before it went full internet so they got the best of both worlds both gens still get they news from mostly same sources, follow a lot of the same shows, music, trends etc. Gen Z the first gen that was raised whole life on internet and Gen Alpha is probably gon be some even crazier shyt wit AI.
 
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Gotdamn you went big with it too, that's that 12-year thing I be talking about. How long yall been together, and after dating men your age throughout your life, what made it appealing to date a man that much older than you?
Not gonna lie…he’s a very impressive guy, and he…wasn’t conceited or anything, but I’ll say he humble bragged a bit and definitely was open regarding some of his major accomplishments…
But really, not that I was dating crash outs/YNs (:mjlol::lolbron:), but he was so much calmer and more secure…very intelligent, patient, involved in his church…
But I also understand he came a little harder compared to guys my age as well so lol
The dynamic with an older guy is definitely different…Men won’t really get it from a woman’s perspective…lol
 

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The rates have been goin up this decade specially in bigger cities. Gen Z women are the first gen of women out earnin male counterparts, on average more educated. Over 60% of men under 30 are single and that rate is much higher than that of women of the same age range.....so it's obvious what's happenin.

Most Gen Z men haven't even approached a woman in real life and a large majority of em get their fix off social media, porn, gamin, anime, vapes, Doordash and all that other stuff. They're not even interested in datin or pursuin em, and a lot of the ones that might try are too socially awkward, swagless, low confidence and a lot of those men have bought in heavy to that red pill manosphere shyt. Turnin incel, real hate for women and wit all that they steal lean majorly right while women are more liberated and progressive than ever. I don't think any generation has a political divide this large between genders just look at this last election male and female votin split shyt was crazy.

A lot of these Gen Z men want all this traditional shyt from women yet they are not traditionally masculine men themselves. Can't provide, no confidence, low testosterone, addicted to social media, porn, gamin, anime, vape, and if ya actually know Gen Z people or even go outside you'll see Gen Z women wit older guys every day. So these Gen Z nikkas got all these deep rooted personal problems from what they're exposin themselves too since a early age from internet and have a self defeatist attitude that get em turnin to red pill manosphere shyt not even tryin to improve yet they very opposite politically from most they female counterparts and these Gen Z women are earnin MORE than em too...... This shyt been buildin up and the rates of millennial men wit Gen Z women is only gon increase this decade wit societal trends. The age gap ain't even societally and culturally as big as previous gens like boomers and Gen X cause millennials grew up wit internet and social media too but they still got the last of the real life outside shyt before it went full internet so they got the best of both worlds both gens still get they news from mostly same sources, follow a lot of the same shows, music, trends etc. Gen Z the first gen that was raised whole life on internet and Gen Alpha is probably gon be some even crazier shyt.

I don’t want to exaggerate things because big age gaps still ain’t really the wave, but GenZ and Millennials both got caught up in the social media BS, difference is they were younger and were watching a lot of our crap play out. So they learned what many of us had to learn through action/living/sharing online.

They definitely succeeded in indoctrinating young men though…something needs to be figured out on that front. So it makes sense that some girls are going older. My concern is that some were influenced by the get the bag, 50/50 convos which aren’t realistic lol
 
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