Abuse and car theft are not comparable. Car theft is cut and dry. Abuse has a emotional and psychological element to it that could take years to get over. To say you should have come forward then is to not understand what the hell you're talking about. That's beyond the fact that if you do come forward especially against someone successful there is the you're lying you made it up assumption off jump.
When I was a young horny teen, I was getting at this chick who I knew since 4-5 and she moved away for about 10 years and came back
I feel like trying to draw a parallel between rape and getting your car stolen is kinda stupid.
Do they not have to go into a court of law and prove guilt? If someone decides to pay them off that's on them.
It happens. I was fenna get into a fist fight with my cousin who was a summer camp counselor. This was the 1st day of camp. He seen me hug up on my aunt and was like "why you hugging up on him?". He found out we was kin and his whole mood changed.When I was a young horny teen, I was getting at this chick who I knew since 4-5 and she moved away for about 10 years and came back
So I’m sitting on her porch talking with her, and her grandma comes outside
Started talking to me asking me who my ppl were.. told her who my grandma was and she looked at me and her and said oh yall know yall cousins??
Me and her looked at each other like
"SONPHEW"
GOOD NIGHT COLI
The reason many women don't come forward right away is because of FACTS such as it being exceedingly difficult to prosecute rape cases, shame, etc. This increases several times over when you're dealing with a famous person who has the resources to potentially have you blackballed, threaten you (and loved ones potentially), can afford lawyers to turn your life inside out and bring out every mistake you may have made. Given Cassie's story, if you really think that it would be that easy for her to just come forward at the time given Diddy's immense power then you just have some kind of mental block when it comes to this issue. Victim advocates recognize these factors which is why grace has been given to come forward on these matters. It doesn't mean a woman is automatically telling the truth, and the matter needs to be fully investigated but the idea that there is automatically something amiss when a women comes forward years after the fact is erroneous and that kind of mentality protects predators.
While I do sympathize and think a time limit is the wrong way to go, reporting abuse when it happens is strongly encouraged. That goes triple for rape. Every day you wait makes your side in the case harder to prove via DNA evidence. Plus you're letting the guy go free to keep doing what he doing, and you never know when the next abuse episode could end up being murder.
