So she owes him the dignity of his good name but he can kill himself?
This is deeper than people would like to believe
He wasn’t shot, it wasn’t an overdose, it wasn’t illness, he killed himself. That’s some next level shyt. I won’t belittle mental health, but damn man. That’s not just your own life thats lifelong trauma to your kids and wife , life irrevocably shattered.
Hopefully none of us will have to go thru what she is, but we can at least surmise that hey maybe just maybe she doesn’t feel obligated to treat him like a victim. Perhaps it’s off putting to see he’s treated like the one done wrong while you gotta pick these pieces up and explain where daddy at to the kids every night….by yourself
If you think about it——and erase our assumptions that she’s a gold digger, racist, they had a troubled marriage, etc——SHE is a victim. Like let’s assume they had a legit happy marriage and this came out of left field. I’m that case, yea straight up she is a victim. So while I’d thunk she shoulda kept this to herself but ….who are we to say.
Related sidenote, perhaps if we stop treating suicide like some noble martyrdom, people will do it a tad bit less