Damn dwight howard bm arrested for child neglect after son molested bf kid

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I mean I get that but what do you do? Lock them in the basement? Tell them they can’t come out only to eat and use the bathroom? And how long do you keep them locked up until they’re not deemed a threat?
You figure that shyt out because that’s your job as a parent. You put them in a in-patient treatment facility, send them to live with another relative with no children, you hire help to supervise the children at all time (I know she got the money, I’m sure those Dwight Howard CS checks are still coming in, plus I doubt she has a job) if you have to you surrender the child to the state. But you don’t just sit back and let the child harm other children.
 

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WOW that is a difficult read
I mean WOW
I know a couple folks who work with families like this and they almost always seem to hate talking about their job or aspects like this

Honestly the lil boy must have learned that behavior from someone he was around or saw and that definitely falls on one of the parents to own up to what the child is now engaging in.
I mean molesting another child because you are angry sounds like beyond just being gay that sounds like a predator

Not comfortable with them putting all the childs business out there like that
 

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You put them in a in-patient treatment facility, send them to live with another relative with no children, you hire help to supervise the children at all time

Yeah, but you would then be putting the child at the mercy of other adults who can continue the cycle of abuse. The child was probably already molested by an adult. Whole situation is crazy.
 

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Yeah, but you would then be putting the child at the mercy of other adults who can continue the cycle of abuse. The child was probably already molested by an adult. Whole situation is crazy.
All children are at the mercy of adults either way. Wtf are you even saying? At least try to protect the other children. You can’t just throw your hands up and act like there is nothing you can do while he molests the whole city. Come on now. You’re making excuses.
 

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Eh..this is a tricky situation. She said the two boys were like brothers.

If her son is not to be around kids, if she had any others, does that mean he can’t be around his siblings?

How do you separate your child to not be around other children in your household?

She at least did the right thing and reported it. Don’t think she should’ve been arrested.

Her son has issues though. Not sure if it’s because of the environment he’s been raised in but someone dropped the ball.

It isn't a tricky subject and this is something that kind of pisses me off.

You have too many women who know that their yute is wild but insist on taking them to functions and shyt.

She was given instructions, she took risks by not following the instructions, and now that she is dealing with the consequences.

The events are distasteful but the punishment gives me a sense of help. Hopefully it sends a message to other careless parents.
 

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The child is already at the mercy of adults either way. At least try to protect the other children. You can’t just through your hands up and act like there is nothing you can do while he molests the whole city. Come on now. You’re making excuses.

Not making excuses. The mother put her child in a treatment program and notified the counselor. The document also says that the incidences occurred before he was put in the treatment program so it appears that they did do something.

Im just trying to look at it from another perspective.

We don’t have abuse or molestation in my family. Not shyt that I have to worry about.
 

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Not making excuses. The mother put her child in a treatment program and notified the counselor. The document also says that the incidences occurred before he was put in the treatment program so it appears that they did do something.

Im just trying to look at it from another perspective.

We don’t have abuse or molestation in my family. Not shyt that I have to worry about.
And yet she still allowed him access to other children to molest, knowing he had a problem. THAT’S why she was arrested. What’s not clicking? There is no other perspective.


And if you honestly believe there is no abuse or molestation in your family at all, you’re part of the problem.
 

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It isn't a tricky subject and this is something that kind of pisses me off.

You have too many women who know that their yute is wild but insist on taking them to functions and shyt.

She was given instructions, she took risks by not following the instructions, and now that she is dealing with the consequences.

The events are distasteful but the punishment gives me a sense of help. Hopefully it sends a message to other careless parents.
Exactly. Ain’t nothing “tricky” about the situation.
 

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This is exactly why I will never touch a single mother. If you have children with her, the possibly rises that your child will interact with the step siblings and you have no control over what is going on in that family dynamic. They may be getting exposed to all types of shyt while with their father, and then they bring that shyt into your kids’ lives.

Too many potential risks that could literally alter the rest of your child’s life. Forever.
 
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