The thing is, there is a real problem with the programming that a lot of young women get in the church.If he was fukking that many women, she knew about it.
Can we be done feeling sorry for her?
She should get off social media and find a good therapist.
Y’all know good and well there are a lot of women who experience shyt like this in (not this extreme) and what do people say? To look the other way if he cheats, to understand that men have urges, as long as things are paid he’s taking care of his responsibilities, etc. This shyt happens ALLLLL the time!
And women stick around because they are told to never leave or that they will be shamed for breaking up the family, etc.
The truth is men get to do whatever the F they want, especially if they find a chick who has been raised to be a doormat. They know who to run game on.
She had to go through this heartbreak and embarrassment to learn not to put up with emotional abuse and to love herself enough to actually present herself well/properly in the media- not waving some plastic sword around and showing up in a bonnet and sweats.
She was mentally defeated sitting up under that man. And I put that on the type of upbringing she had.
As someone stated up thread: The Game is The Game.
He got the right one because a million other women would’ve show his was what it really was and played the game right back (like Tyrese’s ex-wife, for example).
She’s an actual nice girl who needed to be paired off with an actual good dude.