Dam I'm pretty sure I've been sharing my girl

[DarlingNikki]

ok, pass the tea.

He needs to pass the tea when he calls that number so we can all be refreshed.

 

[ORDER_66]

I know this shyt is going to be jokes to most you yall but I need to vent because this shyt hurts so bad . I been with this woman for 9 years and we have 2 kids together. Neither me or her keep locks on our phones because neither of us have anything to hide (at least I thought). Occasionally, I look through her messages just to make sure she not stepping out and I never seen anything that raised alarms. I have noticed that sometimes her call logs have been erased but I never thought much of it.

Anyway, I was going though our phone bill online trying to find a number that I lost and I happened to stumble upon her messaging log Apparently, she has been texting another number hundred of times per day either when she is at work or when I'm not around. I even see where this person texted her at 440am this morning while I was at work and they text back and forth up until I got home. I'm 100% sure that she has to be cheating because I've never seen this number before on her phone. This bytch has really been playing me. She has a decent job but supposedly, some days they make her go in an hour early and other days (like today for example), she texts me to tell me that she has to stay an hour late. I'm thinking she been using this time to step out with this other dude while I'm at home with the kids.

Anyway, I've made up my mind that I'm out. I will not sit around and let anyone use me while I'm paying the bills and watching the kids. I'm going to try to play it cool and not let her know that I know right now. I know that if I flip out when she comes home, she's going to deny the whole thing and I'll never get the truth. What app can I install on her phone so I can get the messages that she's sending and receiving? She has icloud on her phone so I can see her location. I just want to see the messages so when I let her know that I'm out, I can hit her with proof that I know she's been a slut.

you know what needs to be done, drop this chick....

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Texts don't necessarily mean that she is cheating. She might be talking to someone for x number of reasons but there's a possibility that she hasn't actually gone and done something with the guy. Bottom line, it doesn't look good for you... Your relationship must be on the outs but you would know more about that than us. Please don't tell me you didn't see something like this coming....

 

[wire28]

 

[dap-man]

Nope there are other messages on the phone and they stay there. Only the ones to this number have been deleted. At this point I don't mind whatever text I read even if it's something real fukked up because I already made up my mind that I'm moving on.

Yup, keep calm and make sure to find proof. You gotta make sure everything 100% before breaking up, hopfully both of you will still be able to co-parent the kids if she is cheating on you. I wish you luck dawg.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

w8 and pile up more evidence otherwise, she will deny, deflect and be much more cautious with her cheating. (if she is)

When you got enough evidence speak to a lawyer, get an std test, hell get a paternity test

Then when the time is right drop the bomb on her, when she starts denying present all the evidence and demand an explanation

Don't get emotional, you gotta be cold blooded about this, make sure you protect yourself and your kids (if they're yours) financially first

your're gonna be ok breh

 

[MikelArteta]

Texts don't necessarily mean that she is cheating. She might be talking to someone for x number of reasons but there's a possibility that she hasn't actually gone and done something with the guy. Bottom line, it doesn't look good for you... Your relationship must be on the outs but you would know more about that than us. Please don't tell me you didn't see something like this coming....

emotional affairs are just as bad as physical
but if dude has the same area code im pretty sure she has spread her legs already

 

[thegreatwb]

emotional affairs are just as bad as physical
but if dude has the same area code im pretty sure she has spread her legs already

Same area code man

 

[Klyk21]

Nope there are other messages on the phone and they stay there. Only the ones to this number have been deleted. At this point I don't mind whatever text I read even if it's something real fukked up because I already made up my mind that I'm moving on.

damn. Yeah, shes hiding something. Sucks bro. Best of luck to you

 

[MikelArteta]

funny thing what i wrote in another thread

years ago when i was super saiyan reincar i wrote a plot for a movie how a man finds out his wife is cheating but instead of reacting out of anger etc. for 6 months he slowly set things in motion, changed the joint accounts and every month putting the savings in a offshore joint account, sold the house, applied and got a job in another country and at the end at the airport he drops them thangs on how he knew she was a cheating slore, there is no money in the joint accounts, the house has been sold and the money gained is in a offshore account, he has a one way ticket and a great job awaiting for him in a far away country, he then drops a folder with divorce papers and all the evidence of her thottery.

I should start a kickstarter and dig up my old script

 

[kevm3]

it sucks man, but gather all your evidence BEFORE you confront her so she can't flip the script on you or turn it around on you. "Why were you spying on me?" "That's just a coworker who needed such and such." "That was someone I was doing a project with at school and we were discussing the details."

If you find she's doing wrong, don't flip out. Just realize there are better opportunities out there. No need to trip out over one disloyal broad, and never let any woman get such a hold of your emotions that you can't do without her. Good luck and God bless

 

[MikelArteta]

Same area code man

damn

I've been there breh, knot in your stomach, angry, pissed, seething. Pondering if everything was a lie, worst thing for me thot was using a second facebook , on one fb i was in a relationship with her, her other she was single like i didn't exist. I never knew of the second fb till i did the keylogger ,

but i was onyl with her for 3 months so damn 9 years and 2 kids

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

emotional affairs are just as bad as physical

I disagree. Some women will talk to different people if their relationship is falling apart but they won't be as quick to spread their legs. I know that it may sound foolish but there are some women who will not take that next step or at least not right away..

Problem is, there's no real way of knowing because she probably wouldn't admit it anyway.

 

[MikelArteta]

I disagree. Some women will talk to different people if their relationship is falling apart but they won't be as quick to spread their legs. I know that it may sound foolish but there are some women who will not take that next step or at least not right away..

Problem is, there's no real way of knowing because she probably wouldn't admit it anyway.

if there her wolfpack girlfriends yes

but a male

 

[newarkhiphop]

Same area code man