@ cupcake n#ggas on here comparing dude having a jumpoff for a few months to his wife having a full blown affair and falling in love with dude. Dudes take their cues from women and got life and bullsh#t all the way confused.
I mean dude cut off that chick ON HIS OWN VOLITION without any interference from his wife. Meanwhile, his wife has been changing her look, changing her schedule and whispering sweet nothings in this other dude's ear for God knows how long.....with NO INTENTION of stopping. OP thought better of his situation and checked himself. His wife is simply thinking of herself and her feelings....f#ck her husband and her kids.
This chick is telling another man that she "loves" him. Instantly responding to this other dude while she takes her time getting back to her
HUSBAND. Let that sink in.
Did anyone ever stop to think that maybe the OP felt so guilty about smashing some random outside of his marriage that he wasn't paying attention to the signs all along? Giving his wife the benefit of the doubt? And that this THOT has been carrying on this affair for much longer than he thought?
@thegreatwb get as much evidence as you can, get in touch with a divorce attorney, start researching possible new homes/apartments if needed, mind your personal finances and start planning your future as a single person. Open the new account, sign the new lease and get the divorce papers drawn up all while she thinks it's all sweet.
And when you have enough evidence to firmly place your foot up her a## in the divorce proceedings, then have your mom babysit the kids one night, so you can be there waiting for her when she walks in the door from "work." Then let her know that you know what she's been doing. And when she tries to turn it back on you, just calmly pull out the evidence and watch the blood drain from her face.
And as she starts to cry and cop pleas and beg for forgiveness, let her know that it's too late....hand her the divorce papers, tell her the kids are staying with you, tell her you've ended the lease and that she needs to be out in 24 hours.....oh, and the joint account has been cut in half and frozen until the divorce proceedings are finished. Lastly, thank her for all the evidence that she's given you for your lawyer to use.
Peace