Dam I'm pretty sure I've been sharing my girl

[Yup]

They are going to suffer. You are going to ruin his marriage and shyt gonna be hard for him. Your wife is gonna suffer too, you are kicking her to the curb, life without you is not going to be easy for her and you know that. Don't make those kids suffer more than they have to. When children are involved you gotta handle things differently. I know you are hurting badly right now and I think you should do what @MeachTheMonster said and collect yourself before you make any rash decisions.

I'm going to assume you responded based on the belief that he was a faithful husband cause dude does not deserve any sympathy. I am glad his fellow brethren or bringing his iwn dirt to the forefront.
Two messed up people dragging their poor kids into oblivion with no respect for the sanctity of marriage or themselves.

 

[dtownreppin214]

im waitin for op to type up a long ass post about what happened and ending it with the freshprince theme lyrics to complete the job.

 

[Yup]

So the OP ain't gone come back and admit his dirt was enough to race dirtbikes on?



The "wife" was cheating in response to OP having multiple affairs.

The wife is still wrong...if she knew she should have separated or divorced. I decry his woes is me schpiel he attempted to make swallow. The dude is a jerk and does not deserve the sympathy of a dog.

 

[Easy-E]

I know this shyt is going to be jokes to most you yall but I need to vent because this shyt hurts so bad . I been with this woman for 9 years and we have 2 kids together. Neither me or her keep locks on our phones because neither of us have anything to hide (at least I thought). Occasionally, I look through her messages just to make sure she not stepping out and I never seen anything that raised alarms. I have noticed that sometimes her call logs have been erased but I never thought much of it.

I've never understood this logic.

1, I'm single. But, I lock my phone, because, if I lose it, I don't want anyone in my private business. Example, I lost my iPod Touch (has a pass). Yea, they can still use it if they reset it, but, now they don't have access to all the family photos I have on it.

But, my main beef is the trust thing.

If someone's cheating - You think they will just keep the offending info. on the phone?

If someone's faithful - Why are you "checking," in the first place? A lot of trust has to do with not knowing 100% and being vulnerable. How can you really enjoy a relationship and have to confirm everything like you work for the government or something?

Anyways...

 

[McPiff]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/just-reconnected-with-a-old-fling-from-10-years-ago….69720/

this nikka a habitual cheater.

dude violated the breh code. NEVER fukk WITH ONE OF YOUR CO WORKERS

neg train incoming

 

[#1 pick]

So the OP ain't gone come back and admit his dirt was enough to race dirtbikes on?



The "wife" was cheating in response to OP having multiple affairs.

OP probably had affairs because he was having thoughts that she might not be his. It's funny how the spirits talk even if she ain't physically saying nothing. @thegreatwb did you have relations with others along time ago or fairly recent?

There was only one girl I was about to cheat on and that was because I have feelings she was cheating on me unknowingly. With the others, not even a thought of cheating was seriously felt. No lie.

 

[dap-man]

damn OP i was rooting for you

but they got dirt on you doggy

its like finding out ya favorite player was on roids and all his records dont mean shyt no more

True.

 

[Aceofspades404]

op you discust me!

 

[Colicat]

The wife is still wrong...if she knew she should have separated or divorced. I decry his woes is me schpiel he attempted to make swallow. The dude is a jerk and does not deserve the sympathy of a dog.

Don't get me wrong...the woman isn't any better stooping to his level.... They both sound extremely immature and I question the type of environment that they are raising those children under.... neither one of them want to be on team family and the kids are going to suffer because of this

 

[Yup]

OP probably had affairs because he was having thoughts that she might not be his. It's funny how the spirits talk even if she ain't physically saying nothing. @thegreatwb did you have relations with others along time ago or fairly recent?

There was only one girl I was about to cheat on and that was because I have feelings she was cheating on me unknowingly. With the others, not even a thought of cheating was seriously felt. No lie.

That's a reach...I think he was smug enough to think that he can fool around and his eife will be none the wiser
And be faithful to him...I am always amazed at the amount of men who think that their women are just going to lay low sbd cry themselves to sleep. Most women will try to get even...men and women have ego, who wants to take an L.

 

[#1 pick]

Now OP, if you cheating first and she responded...

 

[dap-man]

At first, this topic was sad, but now it's just funny.

The people who are taking the biggest L in this situation is their kids.

 

[#1 pick]

That's a reach...I think he was smug enough to think that he can fool around and his eife will be none the wiser
And be faithful to him...I am always amazed at the amount of men who think that their women are just going to lay low sbd cry themselves to sleep. Most women will try to get even...men and women have ego, who wants to take an L.

I agree with two points you made and that's ego and who wants to take an L.

 

[Colicat]

OP probably had affairs because he was having thoughts that she might not be his. It's funny how the spirits talk even if she ain't physically saying nothing. @thegreatwb did you have relations with others along time ago or fairly recent?

There was only one girl I was about to cheat on and that was because I have feelings she was cheating on me unknowingly. With the others, not even a thought of cheating was seriously felt. No lie.

... hmmm.... Idk about that someone else made me cheat angle...

The OP was having affairs back to 2012 all the way up to recent months.... (over the course of his 9 year "marriage").... The "wife" probably was the one who was feeling the cheating vibes and stepped out because of his neglect of her....

I want to hear her side of the story because it is clear that OP is a liar...

 

[Yup]

The people who are taking the biggest L in this situation is their kids.

Sadly very true. I can't men and women dragging their children in this...it will scar them for life. Disgusting!