Yes, this.
fukk all this emotional, principled "check your girl NOW" shyt some people are talking about. Be a calculated goon and turn this L into a win financially. Wreck this other dude through legal means. Let your cheating wife know she really fukked up thinking you were the one to play this on. Yeah, it's still going to hurt but what will hurt more is you checking our wife and her paramour, your wife denying it, her boyfriend going
, and the both of them
at you getting all emotional. You'll get divorced anyway and your wife will be there in divorce court like
"i have no idea why he didn't trust me and decided to tear our marriage apart" with her boyfriend waiting in the car like
"I'm just taking her to work". Do this the right, smart way breh. Get the evidence.