Dam I'm pretty sure I've been sharing my girl

[QamYasharahla]

Yes it's bytch shyt to call another man and ask him about your wife. Either he tells you "yeah I blew her back out" or he denies it. Either way you lose.

He said he's cheated before and they have kids together . No it's not bytch shyt to own up to your own side of things and fix your marriage in a mature and reasonable manner. That's not to say they will stay together, but its obvious they have some things that need fixed for the sake of themselves and the kids. There's 9 years and two lives to consider here.

Y'all just have a very immature and emotional way of looking at things.

Maybe you're just a fukking idiot and aren't looking at the big picture.

 

[QamYasharahla]

Work on having a better relationship with your woman who has taken another man's rod brehs.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Maybe you're just a fukking idiot and aren't looking at the big picture.

Work on having a better relationship with your woman who has taken another man's rod brehs.

The big picture is that you will have a relationship with her for the next 15 years rather you want to or not. Having that relationship revolve around lies, deceit and revenge, would only make his life more difficult.

 

[thegreatwb]

Why would you want her to get fired?

No matter how you feel about her now, y'all have kids and are in it together at least until they are 25

Her not having a job only makes your life harder. Get a hold of yourself and stop acting like a bytch. You set the tone for how this will play out. You start out with that passive aggressive, petty shyt then you are doomed to an endless cycle of the same shyt for the next 10-15 years of your life. You need to think about yourself and the kids future and leave that revenge shyt alone.

If she gets fired then it's her fault for fukking her boss. My whole life has been turned upside down. Our 6 year old just started first grade and had no idea his whole life about to change. If my kids have to suffer for what she did then I'm bringing everybody down with me.

 

[QamYasharahla]

The big picture is that you will have a relationship with her for the next 15 years rather you want to or not. Having that relationship revolve around lies, deceit and revenge, would only make his life more difficult.

He's the father of those kids, regardless. His wife has cheated on him, so the relationship is over, regardless. Ain't no real man going to take their woman back after some shyt like that. That's the only thing that he could do which could be considered bytch shyt.

 

[Skip b]

He's the father of those kids, regardless. His wife has cheated on him, so the relationship is over, regardless. Ain't no real man going to take their woman back after some shyt like that. That's the only thing that he could do which could be considered bytch shyt.

Unless he had a DNA test....................

 

[QamYasharahla]

Unless he has a DNA test....................

Unfortunately, you're right, which is the main reason he should throw her ass in the bushes.

 

[Raye82]

I'm gonna lay low for a few days and see what else I can gather. Maybe it's a bytch move because I already have enough evidence to prove to myself that she's been cheating but I really need something more so I can send to their HR and to his wife. His wife might choose to stay with him but if I get something big enough, I can at least get him fired from his job. Not to mention that I could potentially have a lawsuit against the company. Text messages and time stamps isn't enough for me to make that happen. Calling him is gonna be useless right now. He's married so he probably won't even answer. Even if he does, he's going to say that it was work related and that I'm overreacting.

She's been at this job for years so I know that he knows she is married. She also knows that he's married so it goes both ways. I still haven't decided if I'm gonna pay them a visit in person but I just might

I know they told you not to listen to any coli women, but I'm gonna give it a shot anyway. I don't think you should take this to their job/HR. Just keep it in the personal realm. You gotta remember dude has kids, so he needs that job to care for them. The same with your wack ass wife, I'm sure she contributes a bit to household funds. Also, let say you get custody of the children, she is gonna need a job to pay you child support. Or let say she gets custody, you will not have to pay as much if she has a job. I think telling his wife that they are having an affair and confronting her with your proof is enough to fukk them both up. I know the both of them do not deserve this courtesy, but you have to think of the well being of the children involved.

 

[thegreatwb]

I know they told you not to listen to any coli women, but I'm gonna give it a shot anyway. I don't think you should take this to their job/HR. Just keep it in the personal realm. You gotta remember dude has kids, so he needs that job to care for them. The same with your wack ass wife, I'm sure she contributes a bit to household funds. Also, let say you get custody of the children, she is gonna need a job to pay you child support. Or let say she gets custody, you will not have to pay as much if she has a job. I think telling his wife that they are having an affair and confronting her with your proof is enough to fukk them both up. I know the both of them do not deserve this courtesy, but you have to think of the well being of the children involved.

So you're saying that I should make sure they both stay employed there even though they been fukking just because I'm a nice guy? I'm sorry but I can't agree with that. I know he has a wife and family to take care of but if that was such a priority for him, he wouldn't be fukking my wife. Like I said I'm giving all the evidence to the HR and I'll let them decide. My life's been fukked up now so I'm not gonna sit around and try to ensure that they don't suffer too.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

If she gets fired then it's her fault for fukking her boss. My whole life has been turned upside down. Our 6 year old just started first grade and had no idea his whole life about to change. If my kids have to suffer for what she did then I'm bringing everybody down with me.

That's some emotional ass shyt there. You should calm yourself and get your emotions in check before doing anything.

 

[2manyFCKNrappers]

I know you're mad breh but leave her job out of it because at the end of the day your children will suffer when she isn't able to financially support them. Since you may be leaving the marriage she still needs a way to make paper. I know it's tempting to fukk all her shyt up but just leave her feeling stupid but don't leave her out to dry. At the end of the day she is being trifling but she still has to be able to be a stable mother to your children above all else.

 

[QamYasharahla]

So you're saying that I should make sure they both stay employed there even though they been fukking just because I'm a nice guy? I'm sorry but I can't agree with that. I know he has a wife and family to take care of but if that was such a priority for him, he wouldn't be fukking my wife. Like I said I'm giving all the evidence to the HR and I'll let them decide. My life's been fukked up now so I'm not gonna sit around and try to ensure that they don't suffer too.

You're going to suffer if you get your wife fired also.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

So you're saying that I should make sure they both stay employed there even though they been fukking just because I'm a nice guy? I'm sorry but I can't agree with that. I know he has a wife and family to take care of but if that was such a priority for him, he wouldn't be fukking my wife. Like I said I'm giving all the evidence to the HR and I'll let them decide. My life's been fukked up now so I'm not gonna sit around and try to ensure that they don't suffer too.

Your life will be even more fukked if you and her play the "hurt you more than you hurt me" game for the rest of your life. And your innocent kids would be stuck in the middle

 

[QamYasharahla]

Truthfully, I'm pretty sure you want the kids, so it's more beneficial to you to try to get her fired when you separate, instead of right now. If she can't support herself, she can't keep the kids.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

He's the father of those kids, regardless. His wife has cheated on him, so the relationship is over, regardless. Ain't no real man going to take their woman back after some shyt like that. That's the only thing that he could do which could be considered bytch shyt.

I didn't say he should take her back. Only he can answer that. He knows the dirt he's done and he knows the dynamics of the relationship.

I just said passive aggressive lies and deceit would only cause more fukkery.