That’s the juxtaposition we face (I’m married now) when we have sex with a new woman. You not gonna always know. That’s why std are scary. Just wrap it up (unless that your girlfriendl)… I refused to hit any chick raw unless it’s my bytch. Had women try to try trick me and say they were allergic to condoms or shyt like that to get me to go raw. Said sorry I can’t do it then. Then of course they change the mind right on the spot. Some triflin people out here. Don’t fall in that trap.
Best advice I can give is when those panties come down, take a good look at the lower area and make sure you don’t see no apparent bumps or something around the vagina or thighs. Not on some doctor inspection shyt, but ain’t you supposed to be admiring it anyway if you bout to hit. She ain’t gonna think that’s why you looking. Sound funny, but take a good breath in. If that shyt don’t smell right it’s dirty and women who dirty got other shyt going on in there… unfortunately ain’t no way you gonna know what’s up inside there. But that helps
Do want to point out tho, they do have medicine and shyt that further reduces the chances more so up to that above 90% that people with herpes take. Definitely people with herpes who are in relationships and they partner doesn’t have it. Same with HIV. But don’t trust no woman to tell you she taking medicine and you don’t see the bottle with your eyes.
Used to date an older chick back when I was 20 who worked at a clinic. Since she was older she would always chastise me about having safe sex and looking for signs with women . Annoyed me then. But she looked out. Don’t be paranoid, have fun , but just use precaution. It’s not stressful when it’s just a part of your routine to “protect your neck”
