Count your blessings, brehs.

[blqbird]

In the last week alone, I've lost my job, been evicted, spent days sleeping on buses and trains, and finally gotten enough money to afford a hostel (while searching for new employment and working through temp agencies). Even though money is too tight to afford food and stamps take a while to clear, I'm still grateful to God for giving me a second chance because shyt could've been alot worse for me. The point of this post is to look at everything you may take for granted in your life because it happens to be plentiful at the moment and really stop to appreciate it. I know I failed to do so.

 

[Silkk]

Damn man. I hope things turn around. You dont have any family you could stay with?

 

[blqbird]

Damn man. I hope things turn around. You dont have any family you could stay with?

Nah. Most of my family left the city completely and my aunt who actually did have space after my cousins moved out, just started renovating her house so she can't take me in. My brother did let me wash my clothes and take showers at his crib while I was outside though. He can't take me because he has a toddler now.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

You don't have DMs on so I'll ask here: do you have a zelle?

 

[Mowgli]

Fast food dumpsters are popping after hours.

U cant sleep safely at walmart

collect cans in gas stations and ask for change for gas.

Don't be shy

Stay safe. Ull make it out of this.

Good time to start networking with fat girls and cat ladies for temporary residence.

 

[semicko82]

You going to get through this rough time my dude.

You going to look back at this period of life as a test of your character

You're also correct that we should be grateful for the things that we have instead of complaining about what we don't have

 

[pcpking]

You get stamps as soon as you apply if you're approved. And idc if I had a toddler my brother won't be on streets unless you're a major fukk up.

 

[SmarkMero]

You already know things will get better for you Breh.

Look forward to the blessings coming your way.

Keep keeping your head up.

 

[blqbird]

You get stamps as soon as you apply if you're approved. And idc if I had a toddler my brother won't be on streets unless you're a major fukk up.

At 26, people don't really have as much sympathy when you stumble. I always feel like there's more I could've done to prevent my current predicament from becoming my new reality but I'm just rolling with the punches at this point.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

This too shall pass
Better day afoot

 

[Turbulent]

Thank you for the reminder breh. Happy that things are starting to turn around with securing the hostel. Keep moving forward, one goal at a time.

Honestly, not even trying to be funny, if i were in your shoes, i would be on tinder, Bumble, hinge, trying to cuff a girl who has a place to stay...

 

[jdubnyce]

Nah. Most of my family left the city completely and my aunt who actually did have space after my cousins moved out, just started renovating her house so she can't take me in. My brother did let me wash my clothes and take showers at his crib while I was outside though. He can't take me because he has a toddler now.

Hope you get out of this situation healthy breh
And I'm going to pry here, but
Why won't your bro take you in?

Unless your relationship is in shambles and/or you and/or him are fukkups, why can't he let you stay?

I couldn't have my bros living on the street. They could sleep on my floor if need be.

 

[blqbird]

Hope you get out of this situation healthy breh
And I'm going to pry here, but
Why won't your bro take you in?

Unless your relationship is in shambles and/or you and/or him are fukkups, why can't he let you stay?

I couldn't have my bros living on the street. They could sleep on my floor if need be.

Nah. He always been my ride or die. He just dealing with too much at once. My grandma had 100k (from what I've been told) stolen from her by a family member and he's working to take care of her because she staying in a shelter rn because of that.

 

[Turbulent]

Hope you get out of this situation healthy breh
And I'm going to pry here, but
Why won't your bro take you in?

Unless your relationship is in shambles and/or you and/or him are fukkups, why can't he let you stay?

I couldn't have my bros living on the street. They could sleep on my floor if need be.

His bro is still helping him out. Maybe they have a different dynamic, who knows. Either way I think dude is choosing to focus on appreciating what bro is doing and not focusing on what bro is not able to provide (for whatever reason). I do admit these are questions that can go through our minds at times but I think the best is to give positive energy.

 

[Cat piss martini]

ya'll got fat white girls where you at?