Could you handle your gf/wife best friend

Could they still be friends?

  • Nope

    Votes: 23 88.5%
  • Yeah

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Total voters
    26

Fiji Water

Every moment is an opportunity
Joined
Dec 12, 2019
Messages
3,808
Reputation
971
Daps
13,571
Reppin
Harlem
Why she holding out for him if he all that? Why he friend with her if he getting bytches? Unless he day one, nah. And even then. Nah. Call me insecure but I'm not doing that and if she has a problem, then let me go hang out with my "bestie". Guarantee I'm getting coochie at least twice that night and cussed out.

Now if he got money and is paying towards our bills, whatever. That's a solid dude that cares about my family. :yeshrug:

Whether he fukk or not. Rather share with someone vetted than a street rat.
 

7th Letter Specialist

I’d rather die enormous, than live dormant
Joined
Nov 21, 2017
Messages
12,598
Reputation
5,584
Daps
45,983
Reppin
Oakland, CA
Why she holding out for him if he all that? Why he friend with her if he getting bytches? Unless he day one, nah. And even then. Nah. Call me insecure but I'm not doing that and if she has a problem, then let me go hang out with my "bestie". Guarantee I'm getting coochie at least twice that night and cussed out.

Now if he got money and is paying towards our bills, whatever. That's a solid dude that cares about my family. :yeshrug:

Whether he fukk or not. Rather share with someone vetted than a street rat.

being a straight male? Let’s say you meet the perfect woman she cook good/banging sex spiritual/great career just a good partner. Let’s say her best friend a straight male they been friends since kindergarten? They talk all the time but he’s not gay he’s actually smash alot of broads but he never smashed your gf/wife? Could you handle their relationship?
 

The BasedFather

Task Force
Joined
Feb 12, 2013
Messages
16,268
Reputation
8,922
Daps
99,675
Reppin
Bltch Mob
Mfs really gotta be naive to think they’re just friends. He’s smashed at least once or they were some kind of fukk buddies. And if by some chance he didn’t smash, he wants to.

Any woman with male buddies is a red flag. Abort mission :ufdup:
 

PatCake

Alkali Nonmetals
Joined
May 24, 2022
Messages
2,859
Reputation
1,340
Daps
14,103
Reppin
I, for one, welcome our new space overlords.
being a straight male? Let’s say you meet the perfect woman she cook good/banging sex spiritual/great career just a good partner. Let’s say her best friend a straight male they been friends since kindergarten? They talk all the time but he’s not gay he’s actually smash alot of broads but he never smashed your gf/wife? Could you handle their relationship?
:mjlol:
 

Umoja

Veteran
Joined
Dec 29, 2016
Messages
15,676
Reputation
3,501
Daps
107,479
Nah. I kind of feel that a good man knows how go respect boundaries.

Even if nothing romantic is happening, I wouldn't be comfortable with another man knowing my business so you can throw gay men into the mix too.
 
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
17,845
Reputation
-481
Daps
57,764
Reppin
NULL
I can understand why some men may have reservations and part of that is they cant imagine a woman having value outside of sex

Also it is exhausting having to curate a woman's friendships.......if she gon cheat take the L and move on
honestly your woman if she's really down for you will curate the shyt herself....if you are having to have any conversations about this....that tells you what you need to know
 

Diondon

Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Joined
Mar 19, 2013
Messages
40,172
Reputation
9,154
Daps
179,182
Reppin
Somewhere tropic...
I won't like it
but I'm no broad's jailer
but hopefully she will be cool with me smiling in every chick face being super friendly :sas2:
 

drederick tatum

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
May 25, 2022
Messages
6,597
Reputation
3,629
Daps
22,101
Reppin
Chicago
Ain't we all players with a roster of dimes we met at Walmart that look better than supermodels, and we can take any other man's woman, but no one can do the same to us? :skip:
 

The Devil's Advocate

Call me Dad
Joined
Jun 1, 2012
Messages
36,001
Reputation
7,954
Daps
99,680
Reppin
Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven
being a straight male? Let’s say you meet the perfect woman she cook good/banging sex spiritual/great career just a good partner. Let’s say her best friend a straight male they been friends since kindergarten? They talk all the time but he’s not gay he’s actually smash alot of broads but he never smashed your gf/wife? Could you handle their relationship?
Unless there is video evidence of their whole entire life, I'm never going to believe he didn't smash in the first place... So nah


Why? Cause there ain't a female friend I've had that long that I didn't smash.... Unless they was ugly
 
Top