It's some of all the above. A majority of em are no nonsense no BS type bytches. And they're not desperate like young hos.. Less baggage too. If they got kids them nikkaz probly grown or dam near so ain no babies and toddlers to chase away so you can do ya thing wit mommy rite quick.
Plus they ain expecting a whole lot other than you to be ready, hard , and have ya pants pulled up when u out wit her.