I'm going to keep it a buck and say this. That boy who has herpes and who likes to take objects up his ass deserves every karma that will come to him in life.
However, you should blame yourself for messing with a fukk boy like that. You shouldn't have given up the cookies without knowing his background and full intentions from the jump. I don't trust people like that. Not saying you can't have sex, but men and women like the fukk boy who you were messing with, are out there having unprotected sex and spreading their diseases to a person they don't give a fukk about. I don't know how most men (women as well) out there do it. The "players", the ones that get "bytches", talks about the number of women they smash on a consistent basis with no carefree in the world without thinking about the consequences. I'm sorry but I can't do that nor I'm that kind of man to do that. I rather stick to one woman and build a relationship with her. Good luck brehette and be safe out there.