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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
I'll give you an example...
You surprise your girlfriend by picking her up from work. And you see her coming out of the building flirting with one of her male co-workers. When she gets in the car, you check her for it. Instead of her apologizing for action which you feel was disrespectful, she defends her actions first stating that he's her friend and it was harmless and then she starts to argue with you saying that you don't trust her because you crept up to her job. So now you're defending why you came up to her job to pick her up, losing focus on the fact that she was caught getting too close and comfy with another man
This scenario happens all the time, just with different issues.
The fact she knows your coming and has the audacity to flirt with another nikka when she knows you're gonna be there says a lot about how she views you. Obviously she neither respects nor fears you. If she did, even if she wanted to flirt with dude she'd be like " my man don't play that shyt"