COLI BREH ALERT: Handsome isn't much of a compliment

[Eternally Jaded]

Gonna go against the grain here n kinda agree with op.

I've seen women call dudes they previously expressed disgust at then call brehs handsome when they see them suited.

To me, handsome refers to your overall look whereas fine goes for ur physical features.

If i gotta choose my compliment, i choose fine any day.

Nowadays I've heard looking like a snack a lot, so either way I'm gravy.

 

[Hollywood Co]

As a man just take the compliment and keep it moving dawg.

No way should you be basing a woman’s interest level based off an adjective that can literally change the very next yall interact.

 

[Voice of Reason]

You don’t need to be handsome to get women. Step your confidence up

 

[WaveGang]

I say cute only when I find someone attractive. I would never call someone unattractive cute. I don't really think other women do either

If someone is unattractive but you're trying to say something nice, you'll compliment something else about him. Like with the chubby guy you'll say he's nice or funny.

That's just what I get from it tbh. There's no right or wrong answer it's all interpretation

 

[Kwabena]

Exactly

Handsome is the nice version for females saying a nikka fine as fukk

 

[Bigblackted4]

Always say had chicks call me ugly and fukk me had chicks call me handsome and wouldn’t. What women say doesn’t really matter unless it’s NO.

 

[Bledswole]

 

[TRY GOD]

A bunch of "You will do" ass nikkas in denial about this wake up call

 

[badtguy]

If you reach a certain age and you yourself have grown into a good looking man.

Women will call you handsome or fine.

Cute is shyt I only here from younger girls who like me.

 

[Bledswole]

I AGREE! Handsome means "Not so ugly that you couldn't be my friend."

They dudes they want are "fine" or "zaddy".If a woman calls me handsome, I know its a wrapthats a lukewarm ass designation.

If you spend two hours in the kitchen and someone like "The food was decent" you would be ready to flay them. I don't wanna be decent food. If i'm not

"the bomb" then I need a new diner in my kitchen:justgodude:

Wrong

 

[Bledswole]

If you reach a certain age and you yourself have grown into a good looking man.

Women will call you handsome or fine.

Cute is shyt I only here from younger girls who like me.

Exactly

 

[badtguy]

Gonna go against the grain here n kinda agree with op.

I've seen women call dudes they previously expressed disgust at then call brehs handsome when they see them suited.

To me, handsome refers to your overall look whereas fine goes for ur physical features.

If i gotta choose my compliment, i choose fine any day.

Nowadays I've heard looking like a snack a lot, so either way I'm gravy.

Lol nikka don't no lady say to a nikka " you look like a snack" outside social media and online stuff.

Even if a chick thinks a nikka is fine as hell. She's not going to say "you look like a snack"

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

When chicks start breaking down your features piece by piece, that's when you know she's willing

to grant you access to the box.

"Handsome" could just be some generic social interaction shyt.

But if she's going "I like your nose, eye lashes, hair, skin tone, lips" etc...

Over time, tho.I have a coworker who's into me.I know I could hit if I wanted to,

but she has a man.She's complimented me/broke down my features piece by piece over the last few months.

First it was "You have a nice skin tone".......then it was "You have a cute nose"...a couple interactions later "You have nice lips"

I know it's moist for me.That analytical/microscopic thirst is underrated.




That being said, "cute" is the worst.It signifies boyishness.Like "You're not ugly, but you could be more aggressive"

Basically "You're mildly attractive, but I don't get the sense that you'd break my back in the bedroom"

Depends what type of chick is delivering the "cute" line, tho.

If it's a square valley girl, it's all good............If it's a hood chick, you're food

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Lol nikka don't no lady say to a nikka " you look like a snack" outside social media and online stuff.

Even if a chick thinks a nikka is fine as hell. She's not going to say "you look like a snack"

Iunno breh, this is definitely "you look like a snack" body language

 

[Bledswole]

Now that I got time

At the work place I've had plenty women throw compliments my way:

"You so fine,I could look at you all day"
"You are so handsome"
"Your a pretty boy"
"Your very attractive"
"I bet your woman doesn't let you leave the house alone"
"Your handsome"
"Your very cute"
"When we got introduced I thought you were an attractive guy"

Those is just a few

Handsome doesn't mean you ok,the fukk are y'all talking about?

Handsome means you are FINE,in a more mature way.

Y'all ain't getting no buns tho,so I can't say that im surprised,typical coli shyt