Classic Kevin Samuels: Being Arrogant makes you more successful than being humble
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It's pretty black and white from what I've experienced. Arrogant people HATE seeing others shine around them. They must get all of the attention because jealousy slips in real easy with arrogant people. If you're an arrongant person, then there's some other red flag behaviors present as well. It just doesn't stop at arrogance.
What type of women tho? If it’s shallow, vapid women, and that’s what you want- cool.
Men are attracted to “bad b!tches” too. Are they necessarily men of value or character?
People have to live life a little longer and get in rooms with REAL movers and shakers.
When I tell you that the most humble ppl I’ve encountered are usually the most successful, most educated, and have the most people hanging off their every word.
QUIET STRENGTH.
Arrogance isn’t inspiring, and it doesn’t make people genuinely want to be in your presence. Many times people are waiting to see those folks fall.
In terms of attracting women, that’s when you can usually tell a woman was taught properly. You don’t want the loud, arrogant dude. That attitude puts a target on your back. You want the quiet one who isn’t drawing attention to himself, but is watching the room. But those men usually see you coming before you see them, anyway.
Justin Nitsuj
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I'm glad I never listened or took advice from this p*ssy ass fakkit 
Practicing humility (and NOT modesty) will increase your chances at reaching your goal. Boldness may get you into scenarios, places or meeting people you would otherwise never dream of.
Practicing boldness is great if you're already a well adjusted person and you can be a workhorse no matter what opportunity arises.
Practicing boldness is great if you're already a well adjusted person and you can be a workhorse no matter what opportunity arises.
Mixerr Reviews
Mixerr Reviews
I can agree with Kevin's statements.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
Once again:We live in a zero sum world with limited time and resources. There is an abundance of actual successes to study who have proventhat they know what they are doing, so why on earth would you go to the failures?
Hear me out here. would you take medical advice from a doctor who failed the boards? Would you take legal advice from a lawyer who flunked the legal boards? Woukd you let a straight-F student tutor your children? Samuels was the same class of failure except he failed life itself.
Would you let this assorted group of failures give you life advice because people “grow and evolve”, or would you seek actual advice from successes? The logic is sound. It does not magically fall apart because its Samuels.
So, Let me reiterate. He was a 50 year old black man hiding the fact that he was living in a white woman’s basement like a college kid. He had no relationship success to speak of , had babymoms and estranged children, and he clearly had no career success or retiremnt fund to fall back on. I wont even start on the 15yr old beater car that this allegedly “high value” male was driving. If he had any answers to life’s problems, then Kevin wouldve applied them to himself ages ago. He is no different than the conmen forex traders , mlm marketers, or timeshare salesmen who espouse the personal benefits of their products, but can only seem to succeed by pedling those same products.
yes . Extremely bummy. His skeletons came out the closet a week after he died.
He is the embodyment of the phrase “finesse”. He is @Luken in a bussiness suit
You can learn from anyone. Either what to do or what not to do.
You wrote that titangraph and all you did was reiterate my point.
The 18-25 ones who conflate arrogance with confidence
Men are attracted to beauty we could care less if you're arrogant, low self esteem, shy, extrovert, etc as long as you look good we'll overlook most of that fortunately/unfortunately
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UnQuantized
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It's not really about arrogance or humility it's about presence and real awareness of the moment you are in. There are seasons in life wwhen arrogance may be necessary to go from A to B and complete a difficult task. There are also seasons where humility is necessary, usually when you have achieved some success and have something to lose. Paying real attention to what the moment is asking you will naturally produce the right attitude for your life.
RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
You a goofy for listening to a self lothing fakkit in the first place
A lot if ya’ll are hopeless. Straight up.
If that's your aura then it will work. Do what works for you.
So many emotional responses here.
So many emotional responses here.
RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
Another dumbass
The Radiant One
Superstar
This is an interaction Kevin, Samuel had with his land lady who he sublet her apartment to him
KillerB88
Superstar
It's not the internet. It's really just our community. You are forever the person people 'remember' you as. And you 'failures' will define you for a lifetime. I've only ever really seen drugdealers and gangmembers be allowed to elevate beyond their past in the Black Community Court of Opinion.