Ciara should have worded this better and made her message from a place of learning from her mistakes. Posting this makes her look bad because just a while ago she was walking in the spirit of a baby momma. Women cant predict everything but, predicting that Future was going to leave her a babymomma was not rocket science. She should speak from a place of learning and not from a high horse as if she was walking in the spirit of marriage before. If she had been walking in the spirit of marriage with future she would have known to curve him like the plague before tying herself to him with a child.
Stop letting dudes off the hook. Perhaps she could have used better judgement with Future but you and I have no idea how that relationship went. Fact of the matter is she is married and seemingly happy. But our community seems to have an issue with marriage and not a problem with the baby mama/baby dady syndrome that is killing us. The fact that men and women are OK with creating broken homes with little thought about raising a child in a stable 2 parent household is a massive failure.
I'd bet money the people upset with her have no issue listening to poisonous rap. Seems like the message no matter how on point it is gets rejected. Could have come from Ciara, Trump or even Mandela himself and people would still find a way to shyt on the messenger instead of looking in the mirror.
More folk should push for marriage, that is what create stability and allows people to progress.