The Devil's Advocate
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Besides my own anecdotal, of course not. Nobody has done a case study on what people talk about.You have proof of that? If true, it's not a good thing and acting like it is, is pretty terrible.
But try it yourself, ask the couples you know, even if just one of them, what they discuss on the regular. Ask one of them, what does the other one think about ________. And make the blank part some deep question
It is sad to say, but most people ain’t even discussing the important aspects of the relationship and how they want to raise their child. Let alone what the other thinks of racial issues beyond the easy answers