For sure. In fact, this is exactly what I needed to see to really lock in. The sappy memories, ideals, and delusions I've holding are remnants of the past that I should have dropped by now. I had still been chasing my goals before working towards "settling down" officially, in fact it's part of why I waited so long. I just thought that she would be at the end of it. I'm still reflecting on it all, but man it has been egotistical of me to think that her timeline would stop for me or that she even had me in mind at all lately.
Childhood one-itis announcing engagement before you had the chance to lock it down unappreciation thread.
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Looks at the join date of OP. March 2022
That explains it.
That explains it.
ol 300 days of summer azz nukka
If she was the one, you wouldn't have waited. People often miss opportunities because they don't act upon them when they are presented. But for the love of god, please don't ruin her wedding. It's funny in the movies, but in real life it messes up the moment.
nikka you're 23. No one's perfect.
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Be reality breh you just wanted time to fukk thots before sliding thru and locking it down
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Too many young men have one-itis. Darts boys.
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How you made all these plans to marry a woman you weren't even dating? 
this part took me outSo the shock wore off. My mind is pretty much clear now. My sister gave me an isolated big sis talk after an intense clowning session. I think she's the only one who caught me lacking.
Outside of the occasional small talk at birthday/grad parties for our mutuals, it's been cordial but mostly quiet. She's a bit of an introvert, so I didn't think it was a biggie. I've kept my ambitions about her hidden and didn't pry as I should have. In fact, I've been actively actively avoided checking her socials in fear of seeing something that might conflict with my perception of her. IDK, I just sort of assumed it would all work out in my favor. A fluffy, comfy outcome to look forward to. Delusion? Hope? Arrogance? How could she not fall into my arms automatically if I became THAT guy? Right?
My sister pretty much made the same remarks and she set me straight when she told me that the person who I want the woman to be is just a memory, a figment of my imagination. Literally all of it is just in my mind. We might not even mesh well fr.
These hit like daggers. Both assumptions are correct.
Outside of the occasional small talk at birthday/grad parties for our mutuals, it's been cordial but mostly quiet. She's a bit of an introvert, so I didn't think it was a biggie. I've kept my ambitions about her hidden and didn't pry as I should have. In fact, I've been actively actively avoided checking her socials in fear of seeing something that might conflict with my perception of her. IDK, I just sort of assumed it would all work out in my favor. A fluffy, comfy outcome to look forward to. Delusion? Hope? Arrogance? How could she not fall into my arms automatically if I became THAT guy? Right? My sister pretty much made the same remarks and she set me straight when she told me that the person who I want the woman to be is just a memory, a figment of my imagination. Literally all of it is just in my mind. We might not even mesh well fr.
If I'm keeping it a buck, I probably would have held it off forever for this very reason. I would have been kicking the can for as long as I could, forever chasing perfection and chasing *the right time* so I don't have to take action romantically.
Maybe so, a bit of both, but it made dealing with them easier for sure. I didn't have to emotionally invest or get too worked up about them cause ultimately, they weren't my perceived endgame