Certain group of women rejoices seeing Halle Bailey holding hands with generic cac #9,452 at movie premier after shytting on her black bf for months

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The vast majority of black women, let me rephrase that, African American women wouldn’t willingly touch a white man 30-35 years ago.


You can't be serious most black women would date a white man if asked out by one.
 

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If the top black women deal with white men why would the bottom not?
Eddie Murphy as famous as he was still had limited access to A list white women.

If this was the case we would've seen a shift in BW dating out much earlier than now. Baby boomer celebs dated/married out A LOT, Donna Summer, Diana Ross, Eartha Kitt, etc.

And if Black celebs dating lives affected us to the degree that you say, the 3 biggest Black female artists being married to and having kids with BM would make more of a difference and it doesn't. It's more about changing and evolving attitudes towards interracial relationships than anything else.
 

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If this was the case we would've seen a shift in BW dating out much earlier than now. Baby boomer celebs dated/married out A LOT, Donna Summer, Diana Ross, Eartha Kitt, etc.

And if Black celebs dating lives affected us to the degree that you say, the 3 biggest Black female artists being married to and having kids with BM would make more of a difference and it doesn't. It's more about changing and evolving attitudes towards interracial relationships than anything else.

the difference today is gen z black girls will ask a white man out.
Older generation of black women would never do that. they would just wait until a white boy asked them out
 

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This was true from the start of the civil rights movement probably until the early 00’s but black men and women now are neck and neck with their thirst for white skin, but black women are about to pass us. I mean we have our fair share of men chasing white women but most only wanna fukk them and still build up blackness, black women are becoming junior klansmen now, they don’t want to destroy white supremacy they want to replace white women and take a seat at the table. I’m not including me in that because while they’re attractive white women I’m racist as shyt and would never sleep with a white woman :yeshrug: and of course I’m not talking about all black women so don’t think I’m one of those c00ns , I love our women and want us to thrive as a whole .
It’s crazy that we’re pretending to be surprised that this is the result. If Black men have said through words and actions that light skinned is their preference for over 50 years are you shocked that young Black women are opting out of dating Black? I admit that many are misguided but this has been a long time coming.
 

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It’s crazy that we’re pretending to be surprised that this is the result. If Black men have said through words and actions that light skinned is their preference for over 50 years are you shocked that young Black women are opting out of dating Black? I admit that many are misguided but this has been a long time coming.
Colorism has always been a problem in our community but I think black men only wanting light skin women has always been overblown and it’s a cop out for black women now who want white men. I mean what sense does it make for a brown or dark skin woman who claims they were passed over for light women to procreate with cacs and raise light skinned babies.
 

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Colorism has always been a problem in our community but I think black men only wanting light skin women has always been overblown and it’s a cop out for black women now who want white men. I mean what sense does it make for a brown or dark skin woman who claims they were passed over for light women to procreate with cacs and raise light skinned babies.
Who else are they supposed to marry and procreate with if they’ve been told and treated as if they aren’t preferred by Black men since the Civil Rights movement?
 

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Folks think I’m going overboard when I say this swirl propaganda has done and will do more damage to black girls and women than hiphop has done or will do to black boys. No matter what people like @Matt504 will tell you:mjpls:
You realize people have DIED over rap, right?
 

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So the argument is that black women have not been first option for black men so black women have no choice but to seek white men. The same white men who studies pay little attention to black women and have black women initiating with them even when they are average or below average. What we are seeing is the apex fallacy where black women are only paying attention the the most desired black men who have options and judging the rest by those standards. So they will approach unemployed Brad, while telling the average Breh he needs to own the bus but it's smoke and mirrors, gaslighting and they have no real interest in the average breh. Basically gaslighting all black men to justify their choices.
 

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Who else are they supposed to marry and procreate with if they’ve been told and treated as if they aren’t preferred by Black men since the Civil Rights movement?
They can marry who they want. But they could also not generalize black men, and choose black men who are cool with them or prefer with them :skip:.

My whole issue with ths is the hypocrisy is all. People shyt on black men who date white chicks if they've had bad experiences with black women who didn't like them. I just want consistency :yeshrug:
 

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They can marry who they want. But they could also not generalize black men, and choose black men who are cool with them or prefer with them :skip:.

My whole issue with ths is the hypocrisy is all. People shyt on black men who date white chicks if they've had bad experiences with black women who didn't like them. I just want consistency :yeshrug:
I actually agree with this completely. The solution should be for women and men who date out to not shyt on their own race. And better yet… they should not speak on Black relationship dynamics period. But it’s also hypocrisy to pretend that this Gen Z wave of Black male bashing girls started from nowhere. They are simply repeating what they’ve seen brehs do for generations. All should be embarrassed. :manny:
 
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