@Raul yeah we do carry loads in our relationships well i do at least. but it's more so my CHOICE to do so not because i have to necessarily.(he makes enough to where i could chill if i wanted and not work) i love what i do and i'm extremely passionate about it tho so that's not happening.
Why?
different strokes for different folks. the way i grew up YES the women always contribute because we're driven and ambitious. personally i'd feel like a "slack" not doing anything at all. but i know women (mothers) who don't hold traditional "jobs" and they still contribute. motherhood is job a full time one at that. i'm not ever gonna deminish what mothers do.
You think carrying your load is a choice and not an obligation?
Shouldn't partners be obligated to contribute?
If you were making great money, would you allow your man to not contribute?
don't quote me. thx.
Exactly. It's psychological. It goes both ways tho, look at male c00ns like Chris B. When you hate yourself and idealize cacs, you'll find any reason to accept a cac and need no reason at all to reject a black.
depends...if he's holding down the house taking care of multiple children...then YES absolutely. (i'd never wanna switch roles like that btw....just for arguement sake)If you were making great money, would you allow your man to not contribute?
because i like homemaking and waited 34 years before becoming a mom. noboby's taking this away from me
Why wouldn't you want to switch roles, btw?
touchebecause i like homemaking and waited 34 years before becoming a mom. noboby's taking this away from me
I've actually read that cheating is the #3 reason people get divorced.
there's some truth to this, just depends on the woman
