Had to dap this.
I think a lot of professional black women focus heavily on their education and careers before giving serious consideration to finding a husband. It makes sense in a way because sistas are taught to be self-sufficient in a way that other women are not. Other races of women definitely put more emphasis on finding a husband at an earlier age.....getting a man on the way up instead of waiting until they get to the top.
A college-educated, reasonably attractive, 30 year-old sista making good money? Her 'equal' is gonna be a dude that basically has his pick of the litter. Most men struggle finding women when they're young. Why would a dude grind, get money and his life together and then give away his advantage. No, he's going to want to hoe around for a bit. Young women don't wanna give their youth and play the field....lotta young dudes can't do that at 20, but they can at 30.