Or am I tripping and we look the same?
Depends on the ADOS and West African in question.
The slave traders went to specific locations in West Africa to match up with the skills they needed in America. I've read that a lot of Igbos ended up in the DMV area, so black folks around there will look more similar to Igbos from Nigeria.
Black folks in South Carolina and Georgia descend from people that grew rice so you might see similarities between West Africans in rice growing regions and blacks in SC/GA. Plus....a lot of Blacks from SC/GA went north to NYC, Philly and Boston during the Great Migration. So...Black folks in those cities will often be related to and look similar to the SC/GA blacks.
I think Yoruba and Akan people were more prevalent in the Caribbean and South America, so you'll see parallels there.
Louisiana....it's said one of the reasons the state prison is called "Angola" is because many of the Africans brought to New Orleans during slavery, came from that part of Africa.
I'd say many Nigerians and Ghanaians could "pass" as ADOS but other groups like Senegalese or folks from Benin, Togo etc. would standout more.