Can you cheat on someone and still love them?

[Ghost Utmost]

No.


Because love isn't a feeling. Love is commitment above all.

Are you loving someone if you are - deceitful, lying, disloyal, risking their health, & causing emotional turmoil, etc?

Where is the love in those actions...

That feeling inside. The butterflies. Enjoying them. We call that 'love'. Unpack a phrase like "love at first sight". Impossible. The only thing that can arise at first sight is physical attraction. 90% of romantic love is just physical attraction. That's why it wears off after a few years.

If someone actually loves me, the foundation of that is them taking care of me. I'm speaking from my point of view as the subject of their love. I would call it bullshyt if it included anything that wasn't in my best interest.

Your warm feeling inside doesn't mean shyt to the other person. Your love is only worth something if it feels like love to your loved one.

So lying and betrayal don't qualify as love. Just mathematically.

 

[Draje]

Yes. Im a firm beleiver of this.

U can fukk every thing on the side and not care if the bytch lives or dies tommorrow, but got that one girl at home thats ur world

So your girl can get all the dikk she wants on the side but stop only wanna come home and be with you

 

[Remote]

Yes.

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

Now you see why as a trans-species vegan hotep tiger male feminist, I have no choice but to advocate for polygamy....


There are women out here who will never experience this love

 

[prince_peoples]

of course

i'm probably going to end u marrying my woman, but not cheating is some of the hardest shyt ever.

 

[StarGirl]

That feeling inside. The butterflies. Enjoying them. We call that 'love'. Unpack a phrase like "love at first sight". Impossible. The only thing that can arise at first sight is physical attraction. 90% of romantic love is just physical attraction. That's why it wears off after a few years.

If someone actually loves me, the foundation of that is them taking care of me. I'm speaking from my point of view as the subject of their love. I would call it bullshyt if it included anything that wasn't in my best interest.

Your warm feeling inside doesn't mean shyt to the other person. Your love is only worth something if it feels like love to your loved one.

So lying and betrayal don't qualify as love. Just mathematically.

Please expound on the last two paragraphs. Thanks in advance.

 

[MaxPain]

So your girl can get all the dikk she wants on the side but stop only wanna come home and be with you

U one of "those" guys arent u

Men & women are different so clearly she cant pull that off without no feelings involved

But I can

 

[prince_peoples]

Are you loving someone if you are - deceitful, lying, disloyal, risking their health, & causing emotional turmoil, etc?

Where is the love in those actions...

so your parents never lied to you or risked your health in any way

did your parents never cause you any form of emotional turmoil?

shyt isn't black and white.

with that said i do agree that cheating is wrong

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Now you see why as a trans-species vegan hotep tiger male feminist, I have no choice but to advocate for polygamy....


Their are women out here who will never experience this love

There are women who wouldn't mind a polygamy relationship. That's the HONEST way.

But to cheat and claim you love someone is some bullshyt.

Men wanna kill their girl if they even dreamed another dikk was in her but have a "I slipped in p*ssy" demeanor and she's suppose to just accept that.

Whatever floats y'all boat.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I'm going to say yes.

Only because of how the question was asked.


Yes people make mistakes or fall victim to fleshy desires.



However that doesn't make it right nor does that mean it can be a repeated thing. Also you have to question how much you really love that person if you can cheat.


When you love someone its more than just a feeling and a saying, it takes a display of actions. The biggest one being loyalty. I love a handful of people but I'm only in love with one.


So yes can you love some one and cheat



The flesh is not loyal and if you put yourself in potion to cheat or around those that are cheating....your going to cheat at SOME point. You can't talk and hang with people who have a high sexual or mental attract to. Love is more about your works than your words. Its easy to say something, its a different beast to do

 

[LEEeveryday]

Yes,

Cheating just means you love yourself more.

 

[Rozay Oro]

The fukk? If you can cheat on your girl and it's just physical, could your girl cheat on you and still love you too?

Dumbass

No you're the dumbass. I clearly implied its not just a nut for her and told your ass i wouldn't be cool with it. Ho ass nikka, get yo dikk tucked cause you think like a bytch

 

[Matt504]

No you're the dumbass. I clearly implied its not just a nut for her and told your ass i wouldn't be cool with it. Ho ass nikka, get yo dikk tucked cause you think like a bytch

How is it just a nut for a male but not just a nut for a female?

 

[Womb Raider]

you can but that shyt can fukk your head up


I could never

 

[Poitier]

There are different types of love. I don't think you can romantically love someone and cheat on them but I do think you can platonically love and deeply care and have affection for them.