Can we have an earnest discussion about the femcel issue we have in the Black community?

[ItWasMeThough]

I can tell you her whole life story just by looking at her..

got roasted for her head size growing up and never forgave nikkas..

What’s her real name so I can report this to her job? Lmao.

Edit: Being the Karen that I am. Email sent to Allianz.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/evelyn-a-bb8972a4?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Is NigNog the Kenyan form of Akata?

Every day I regret sending Sally Strothers my milk money to save them from the flies and pot bellies.

We don’t have a femcel issue in the so-called black American community, we have a tether issue.

 

[Biscayne]

There was. a prosecutor using the term Bulletbag that escaped accountability

This was around the time that Black dude who had the cookbooks was exposed for saying wild shyt about Black women years ago and he was a Prosecutor or Public defender and he got a pass until he didn't

 

[tuckgod]

They basically use blanket blackness to get off the anti FBA/ADOS hatred. Its not that they necessarily don't see themselves as black, they just know that most of what "BLACK people"-"BLACK culture" etc is already attributed to FBA/ADOS

Notice the foreign flags never use their specific ethnic groups when starting these gender wars. Its always "black men "black women" They know the lions share of chaos will get thrown on us. Their actual respective cultures left completely unscathed. And you'll have a bunch of dodo bird american negroes of both genders arguing with each other. They basically walk into the room and throw a grenade, then bounce"

And these blanket blacks are none the wiser


Not saying we dont have c00ns that engage in all of this. But non fbas make up a massive sizable portion in the so called "gender wars". Definently something to take note of

I could hug you nikka

 

[Weaver31]

Black women are 2.5 times more likely to be killed by their partner than any other race. 9 times out of 10 a black woman knows her killer.

Source: Violence Against Black Women – Many Types, Far-reaching Effects - IWPR

So, I'm sorry, when y'all try very hard to make this an "equal" experience that's where you all lose me. That's not to say what Black men don't experience from black women isn't real, but that poster isn't wrong.

Yes black femcide as well as black on black homecide is an issue us black men need to address as we are the ones doing this to women in our communities as well to our fellow men and more importantly our children. Yes there are black women who are killing our men, other black women and black children but men as a whole commit more murders.

We need to do a better job as a collective to make our communities safer. However, it's easier said than done.

Also I notice black folks tend to have a lot of trauma and we need to address it as best as we can. Also we need to do a better job regulating our emotions and being more emotionally available and emotionally intelligent. Some of us need better impulse control....both men and women in our community.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

There are no ”femcels” just bitter ran-throughs who can’t get a man to commit.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

More important to talk about you don't get off a compromised racist social platform

 

[Gloxina]

I would say that everyone is conditioned to prefer white supremacy.

Take #bothsides on the coli. Because Kamala had some non Black ancestry she was seen as being untrustworthy but these same nikkas were down to trust a whole cac who told you what he was gonna do now these nikkas are surprised that he did what he said he was gonna do.

There’s plenty of of white boys in asia who will openly say that asian women prefer them because they’ve seen some evidence of it obviously the majority of asian women prefer asian Men but like divestors there’s a loud minority jacking crackers.


Again I’ll use the example of Black customer service to Black people as an example. Black people tend to give shyttier service to Black People and better service to cacs

It’s because it was imprinted in them. It’s basically the adult version of the doll test and it needs to be indentified and rectified when seen in Black people in general.

Yes, white supremacy has done a number on all races, of course including us.

 

[Givethanks]

Idk what's going on but I wanna be apart of it, this sounds goofy

 

[Soldier]

I said black men do it on a world stage. When white men slander their women, they aren’t putting them down for their hair, features, and inferiority to other races of women. They actually have high racial self esteem. Their hatred is misogyny. Not hatred of self.

However *many* black men make it VERY clear to the WORLD that they do not desire black features on their women. To the point now that’s it’s a cliche in pop culture.

I mean, you want to get to the root of the issue, you have to start there. Those black girls/women are “divesting” and crashing out because they are hurt. Anger is a secondary emotion. Btw I am not justifying what has been said, but rather contextualizing it.

Many white men criticize white women and complain about them all the time, and as a result prefer to date Asians or Latinas over their own women. They always say that white women aren’t as sane, feminine, beautiful and traditional as Asian women or Latina women. But these white men aren’t race-mixers, self haters or traitors apparently lol. And don’t tell me that they’re dating other races of women because they‘re struggling to pull their own. They don’t settle for Asian women or Latinas as mere consolation prizes. Many of them are genuinely attracted to these women. White men are in fact the biggest race mixers and divestors in American history lol. But they almost always escape criticism from everyone for that.

By the way, on the internet, on social media, and in real life, I see much more brehs with the « black women are queens and goddesses » energy than self haters/black women bashers instead. Compared to other races, we black men are arguably the biggest fans of our own women and simp very hard for them . Most of us black brehs are protective of our women here. We don’t hesitate to immediately put c00ns in their place and don’t tolerate any anti black female slander on the coli . But on online spaces dominated by black women, I notice the opposite happens. Black men are routinely trashed on lipstick alley and on other similar platforms. Twitter is notorious for seeing anti black male tweets made by bitter black women, black men actually give plenty of love to black women than most people believe, but the feeling isn’t mutual from many black women.

 

[Jaguar93]

Op should’ve never worded it femcel but a lot of BW. Are consuming anti black men content and participating in gender war bs. They’re no different than the manosphere/red pill bruhs.

 

[Black Hans]

Outside of disabled women, there's no such thing as an femcel. Just bitter women who can't get the man they think they deserve.

 

[Uachet]

The simple truth, as I see it, is that we have a lot of self-hatred, hatred of those who look like us, hatred of our ancestry, hatred of what we have gone through, hatred caused by tribalism, hatred caused by making poor decisions and suffering the consequences; all of that hatred and more that we are so willing to take out on each other. Too many of us look at this from only our own perspective alone, and doing that removes the possibility of creating empathy for each other or even rectifying the problem.

The solution to all of this is something I have been racking my brain about for over 27 years. I fear I am just not a visionary enough to supply a solution that will be accepted by the masses. I can supply a solution that some accept on a one on one basis, but the masses no since they are more influenced by each other and the negativity of those whom they look up to. Understanding that fact, I attempt to do things in small numbers, in my family, social groups, and hope that with time those numbers will grow. Hopefully the pain we experience from what is happening politically will also help us get on the same track, where we finally are more open to a different paradigm that starts with us really loving ourselves and who we are.

I know I will not live to see what the possible outcome of all of this tribulation will be, but the best I can hope for is that my own family and those others willing to listen will weather through it and be able to build something for themselves that has a strong foundation and difficult for others to tear down. It is also why I rep self-suffiency, because that Is what I really hope for my ethnicity to achieve in particular, and even my race to achieve overall (Though, charity always starts at home first).

 

[Barlow]

Outside of disabled women, there's no such thing as an femcel. Just bitter women who can't get the man they think they deserve.

then they're a femcel...the same way men who blame women for not getting the women they want are incels. they can get ugly women but they feel entitled to the best.

incel does equate to just sexless, otherwise any virgin would be an incel. idk why the coli is so exact about these terms.

literally all you have to do is google the term femcel and plenty of information will come up